Hi,
just saw yr forum rant and I can sympathise. In four years of swinging as a single guy I NEVER met up with a single lady for NSA sex. I did have a rip roaring time with a circle of married couples where I was welcomed.
I suggest you change your approach if you only want a fuckbuddy or two, and rather try to make friends with married couples.
BUT! Big but!!!
Nobody likes or wants a hit and run artist!! People are looking for real friendship, with perks. :-))
Single ladies in the scene, all want a relationship. Advertising here does not mean they have a typical male shag and leave viewpoint. If you are not offering that, then dont expect to hook up. If you are not at least open to a close friendship, you are wasting your time.
Unfortunately, this and other sites are crawling with arsehole husbands trying to cadge a skelmpie behind their wives back, or are simply scumbags. This makes life extremely difficult for the tiny handfull of gentlemen out there who know how to treat a woman with respect (and her husband too) .
Hope this helps
Cheers