Are there any real ladies out there????

16 Jan 2014

Hello ykad, I can assure you there are plenty REAL ladies here on site. I of course rushed off to go and browse your profile,who would not ?After reading the forum you have posted. How sad it was to only find a basic to non existing profile. I for one would suggest you do a little work on yours, give it a little about yourself there, like you did with this forum. And you can always keep a locked album for the ladies. Answering your questions. So I would think you are Number 1 (after browsing your profile) which is SAD. And yeah I would also say us ladies are the first half of number all need to be careful, even the males really. We never know what we are walking into. And lastly but not least (Number 1) is MOST certainly YES to the last question.

16 Jan 2014

Quote by ykad
I have chatted to so many ladies on this site and have not met one yet.....
Now i came to a few conclusions:
1. Either i am not interesting enough.....which would be rather sad.
2. The ladies are afraid to meet a guy for nsa fun......then why sign up on a site like this.
3. Most of the ladies are fake.....some weird guy posing as a woman.
So all i am asking is these two questions:
1. Has any of you fine gentleman had the pleasure of meeting any of these stunning ladies from this site on a 1 on 1 basis ( not couples) ?
YK

yip, I have. Some succesfully and some not so much, but there are ladies on here who are above board.

16 Jan 2014

Hi, just saw yr forum rant and I can sympathise. In four years of swinging as a single guy I NEVER met up with a single lady for NSA sex. I did have a rip roaring time with a circle of married couples where I was welcomed. I suggest you change your approach if you only want a fuckbuddy or two, and rather try to make friends with married couples. BUT! Big but!!! Nobody likes or wants a hit and run artist!! People are looking for real friendship, with perks. :-)) Single ladies in the scene, all want a relationship. Advertising here does not mean they have a typical male shag and leave viewpoint. If you are not offering that, then dont expect to hook up. If you are not at least open to a close friendship, you are wasting your time. Unfortunately, this and other sites are crawling with arsehole husbands trying to cadge a skelmpie behind their wives back, or are simply scumbags. This makes life extremely difficult for the tiny handfull of gentlemen out there who know how to treat a woman with respect (and her husband too) . Hope this helps Cheers

17 Jan 2014

@ykad I personally do not like to give out my personal details to just anyone,(that would be my email address/phone numbers) thus I prefer keeping sexy and face pics in a closed album. That way I choose to who is to see my face and who not. I fully agree a nicely dressed gent is way more attractive than a penis photo. I would think any lady would ,after exchanging knows if there is a little attraction between her and a gent, thus would say yes to a Public meeting for BREWED coffee. After that *coffee* dates an be done still hopefully someone knowing where she will be. incase you are not who you say you are. LMAO here, it seems I am watching to many crime series's. But that is my own way of doing things anyway, my girlfriend always know where I am and how long I will be,I always phone her on arrival and departure,that is if she is not the one dropping me off at the venue of meeting for *coffee* @ softbuns. Most ladies does not always understand NSA fun, and we all know ladies function differently than men. Men can pull up their pants and go on their merry way with a glow of satisfaction after great sex. Females tend to get a little romantic specially after the second play session....yeah, yeah a flaw, but that is why communication and rules was invented.

17 Jan 2014

Quote by softbuns
Hi,
just saw yr forum rant and I can sympathise. In four years of swinging as a single guy I NEVER met up with a single lady for NSA sex. I did have a rip roaring time with a circle of married couples where I was welcomed.
I suggest you change your approach if you only want a fuckbuddy or two, and rather try to make friends with married couples.
BUT! Big but!!!
Nobody likes or wants a hit and run artist!! People are looking for real friendship, with perks. :-))
Single ladies in the scene, all want a relationship. Advertising here does not mean they have a typical male shag and leave viewpoint. If you are not offering that, then dont expect to hook up. If you are not at least open to a close friendship, you are wasting your time.
Unfortunately, this and other sites are crawling with arsehole husbands trying to cadge a skelmpie behind their wives back, or are simply scumbags. This makes life extremely difficult for the tiny handfull of gentlemen out there who know how to treat a woman with respect (and her husband too) .
Hope this helps
Cheers

I somehow doubt that there are very many people (if any) on THIS particular site who are looking for a relationship.