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mymail069
1 week ago
Straight White/Caucasian Male, 46
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Sadly I have to report NO offers was forth cumming..ermm coming.....
My mojo is most certainly LOST.

Your mojo most certainly can never be lost ...
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Hi Guys
Thanks for keeping us informed about the fakers out there, and yes one fake photo makes a faker in my opinion.
We try to catch the fake photo's at the time of uploading but a lot do get through, and we rely on you the member to bring them to our attention as you find them. By clicking on the Report icon on the offending profile and leaving us with any evidence you may have it not only makes our job easier but makes the site better for all.
I personally spend about ten(10) to fifteen(15) hours each week looking for and dealing with fakes etc. and i know the other mods do the same, while we have programs to help us find fake photo's, we simply don't have the resources or the time to search the entire internet looking for fakes or stolen photo's.
As with any community the best form of policing is done from within, so please report all fakes you come across and together we can clean things up.
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Mike_
P.S. The profiles mentioned above have been dealt with by others on the Admin Team earlier today.

Hi there
I have had pics sent by REMOVED BY ADMIN, after being invited to meet him and his lady, and then doing a cross search of the pics it lead me to some obscure Portuguese porn site .... I gave him the opportunity to reply and he did not. This after he has been on line a couple of times.
So I would like to report this please.
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Hi guys and gals,
I see i've missed some activity on the dogging forum since my last visit....
I hope to hear some feedback from all the members that were organising a session and I'm very sad that i missed out on the action sad
Please PM me (or even email for those that have my personal email, those that don't just ask) when you organise something again. The key to making this work is starting a group that is keen with a way of contacting each other for meets when weather etc is good. (that being said we are well into summer and must make the best of it... make hay when the sun shines and all)
P.S. how do you guys feel about signal hill as an alternative location ?

Hi there
I am curious if anything happened out at Derde Steen yesterday?
RE Signal Hill, would you propose being in the car park or a bit off the beaten trail. I ask this as the car park can be very busy and I do not think you would get much opportunity for privacy here.
Another alternative in the near vicinity would be heading out on Tafelberg road past the cable car station to near where the boom is. This road is not that busy, but does see some / enough traffic. If you take things even further and walk past the boon for about 3km you will find a very nice rock pool where one can swim in and play in smile
Keep the ideas coming as I am keen to participate.
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Sounds good! It is short notice, but we will try our best to be there around 18h30.
Any other takers? wink

A little too short notice for me and can't make it .....
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Hi fellow doggers,
Whats happened in CT?! It seems the dogging scene has died down!!
What are we going to do to revive it??? Anybody up for some discreet watching of us playing with each other?

I would love to come on over and watch .... smile
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Every valentines night, my wife and i go somewhere for dinner, after which we go somewhere outdoorsish to make out which normally leads to very hot sex. Last year it was the parking at greenpoint lighthouse, this year it's gonna be signal hill parking. Just saying................. wink

Would not go there in the night a friend of mine was shot there a few years ago .....
Agreed and the mountain is currently seeing a spate of robberies. Granted more on the Rhodes mem side, but there have been a fair number of incidents the last two months.
Also do not think that signal hill will not be that busy ... expect lots of people to be there and parking might well even be a challenge.
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Great idea, shells on the bonnet it is. Been down to those spots a few times and never had any luck. Just end up having fun in the car by our selves. Would be nice to be watched or watch.

Ok .... so if I take a cycle down there and see shells on the bonnet would it be ok to stop next to the car and "chat" while we see what can or can't happen?
The up side to me doing this is that you then have a rather handy look out too ;)
J
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So I've been waiting to hear how this advice has worked, and nothing!
How will we know if our advice is crappy if you don't give us any feedback guys?

My wife is a house wife with two extremely active boys (1.8 years and 7 years) ..... when her head hits the pillow at night she is lost to me!
Sunday evenings are usually a hit and miss issue, but hell I have a very high sex drive and really struggle with this.
Boarding school in a very far away and desolate arid land is unfortunately not an option for the boys smile ... they are kind of nice kids to keep around, with nice small fingers that can clean in those hard to reach places on heavy machinery around the gears and blades :) (just a joke before I get all hell on my head from a reader who might not posses a sense of dark humor)
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First set aside time. Planning isn't what makes it boring, it's doing it the same way all the time that makes it boring.
If you know you're going want some nookie you are going to have to exercise forward thinking, start by messaging her in the afternoon and telling her that you thought she looked sexy that morning. Then about 20 minutes later, message her again and tell her that you've been thinking about how delicious she is. and then so forth... By the time you get home she will be aching for it.
Also making a date night regularly (as much as once a week), by getting the kids sleepovers (if you have friends who have a similar problem, set up a "take each other's kids for date night" arrangement with them), finding a sitter and booking a night out or even sending them to the grandparents.
You don't have to all clever to be romantic and sensual, you just need to figure out what her "hot buttons" are - and usually they are a lot for simple and easy than flowers and chocolates:
For me - run a fingernail from the back of my ear down my spine to my tailbone and I'm jelly in seconds - no matter how grumpy I was 20 seconds ago.
Inversely, you should also figure out what your hot buttons are... if you tell her that she needs to wake you with a BJ if she wants nookie at 3, coz what could be a better feeling to wake up to... (I love waking up being licked and nibbled), then TELL her that's what she needs to do to get you in the mood.
Once you BOTH know what the other's "hot buttons" are, then it's a whole lot easier to have satisfying quickies and when the opportunity arises (20 minutes in the scullery or a chance to "crash" her shower coz the kids are watching Nemo) this becomes an exciting sexy game rather than something we have to figure out how to get around to doing, which of course DOES make it boring and unsatisfying - and TRUST me the more unsatisfying it is for her the less interested she will be.
The keys things to remember:
TELL EACH OTHER WHAT YOU WANT Tell each other what you like SPECIFICALLY and EXPLICITLY (this is quite an exciting thing to do too if you're not too embarrassed) and when your partner does - PAY ATTENTION, TAKE NOTES!
Next: Remember that for a guy - a sexy pic will get him going, for a girl, you got to seduce her brain - make HER feel sexy and desirable. Just telling her you think she looks hot will get her juices flowing! If she shuts you down on compliments try a slightly different angle like coming up behind her while she' s cooking and nibbling her earlobe and telling her how delicious she tastes or telling her what you'd like to do to her on the kitchen counter or maybe even suggest she lose everything but the apron smile
You just have to wind her up a little, get her lizard brain (google it) to wake up.
Lastly and most importantly, keep it fun, hiding from the kids and figuring how to get at each other can be a lot of fun if the POINT isn't necessarily just the bonk. If you just grab her quickly flip up her skirt give her a few licks and when she starts squirming a gentle slap on the butt and tell her that's her rations for the evening... by the time she gets to bed, sleep will be the LAST thing on her mind.
Women have some many things clammering for their attention, that you have to crowd out that other stuff with your suggestions.
Try it tonight!

Nice feedback Lee
woof woof ... is that just too corny a confirmation of wanting to attend a dogging session?
Hi there The Quarry would be a great location, the only thing to consider here is that you are in a group as once in there and you are followed or surprised by some of the trouble makers on the mountain then things could get a little hairy. I often cycle over the mountain from Rhodes Mem side to town before work during the week and have also thought the quarry could make for a great little adventure.
Hi All I am looking for ladies to join in on a "Lunchtime Kissing buddy" meeting in Cape Town CBD. There are a few nice places to meet (The new parks adjacent to the Soccer Stadium) where one can be afforded a bit of space and time. Drop me a note on my profile page should you be keen. Regards Mymail
Hi All So how are we progressing in the dogging scene? I am keen to try this out as I think there is a fair bit of a thrill in the act too.. If anybody is planning something in the CT or Table View area, please let me know. J
Hi All Sorry ... I see I never clicked on the "notify me if there are replies" icon, so never noted your replies. Back to the post. If anybody would like me to come on over for a NSA wake up call at your place (Preferably in CT CBD and surrounds or Table View Milnerton areas) then let me know. I know I wake up horny and I hope there are single ladies or couples out there who feel the same smile
Hi Guys / Girls I am very keen to give this a go. Please could you include me in any correspondence. Regards J
Contact "Big Dick" on this forum. He has a B&B in Table View Area
B.T.W 69 those are eight items listed not seven smile 9. The way a women moves. If she moves effortlessly and gracefully I am completely sold! (This is a completely un-scientific, but true study of watching many women :) )
Anyone riding the 24hrs of Oak Valley and wanting to introduce themselves? Let me know
Any CPT Dogging happening or any experiences from those on this list?
Hi there Any couples or ladies in the City Bowl, Green Point or Table View/Milnerton area looking for a naughty wake up call before work ... a great way to start the day smile Let me know
Hi all Looking to hook up with a couple or a lady for a little lunchtime fun in the CBD ... any takers?