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fflash
Over 90 days ago
Straight White/Caucasian Male, 50
Straight White/Caucasian Female, 50
0 km · Gauteng
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Forum Virgin
Hi ya all
Just one thing I don't understand if you look at the personals page there is a lot of people saying they want to meet couples,ladies,gents or what ever and if you are interested drop them a mail . So you look you like and you think yes we fit the profile and description you sent a mail and get exited an then they ignore you flat I don't get it why put the ad in the first place if you do not intend to answer even if it is just a"sorry we don't like you" or something.
Please people if you put a ad in personals just answer the poor souls that take the time to reply.
Forum Virgin
I cannot see what language has to do with anything but maybe its just your way of trying to offend me because you know I'm right (not working) Never the less it is clear to me that you are unable to respect other peoples views and preferences and that you are clearly frustrated because nobody wants to talk to you (according to your profile) maybe its time to change your attitude buddy might just make a difference and land you some fun.
This said,this debate can and will go on for ever and I am not prepared to engage in any further washing of dirty laundry on this site so I'm signing off this topic you have your views and I have mine lets try and respect that so lets just agree to disagree on this before it gets totally out of hand
Forum Virgin
Mr Play : No offense taken well said though
Amethyst : You asked me directly why not in the bedroom let me give you my point of view,it was not intended that way by nature if you have a cat and a dog in your house and they grew up together they eat together , play together , sleep together they become best friend and you would love it you would think its the cutest thing on this planet you might even tell your friends about it, but now the minute that the dog want to jump that cat (and it happens) you would intervene, yell at the dog to stop it. Am I right ? Why would you do that ? Its because you know its wrong its a law of nature its wrong for that dog to fuck the cat. You don't see animals mating across the line except with human interference (and we are animals as well) so lets be friends and play together sleep together eat together save each others lives and be best friends but keep our mating rituals the way it was intended
If anyone is offended by this post I truly apologize it just gets me hot under the collar to be branded a racist by people that doesn't know me or my values or what I stand for
Forum Virgin
Hi all this is where I need to choose my words very careful not to offend anybody . All I have to say is come on people enough with this racist crap its getting annoying all we hear the hole day is racist this and racist that and to say that I am a racist because we included the phrase "we don't play across the race barrier" is offensive to say the least. Just as the firemen or medic would save my life so will I do exactly the same for them we have a lot of black friends I sit in restaurants with black people at the same table having a laugh and sharing a good time with them. I treat everybody as my equal black , Indian doesn't matter but the only place we prefer to play with our own race is in the bedroom its not because we are racist its merely a preference just like not playing with single men is our preference so is this. So if anybody wants to brand me as a racist so be it but just think about this. If you ever said no to a guy or girl or couple because they are just not your cup of tea or too old or too young it makes you just as much of a racist as me its not all about colour its preference
Forum Virgin
A lot has been said about your profile and the things you want and need appose to what you will get just remember one thing you are a coupe and you are looking for a girl to join you, single guys are easy and a dime a dozen and they can look after themselves while single ladies cannot and if they meet up with somebody they need to feel safe and having a phone chat and drinks afterwards is not going to give her the security she needs to feel safe and comfortable with you guys remember we live in a cruel world and nothing is safe and sacred any more. Secondly come on man get rid of those pics on your profile really,part of meeting new people is a bit of advertising show some flesh get some naughty pics post them we all do the same its no shame especially the pick that looks like you are wearing a nappy if you don't want to expose your privates fine but at least get into a jockey or a G string or something, all you can see from the Mrs is her bum and something that can hurt someone ,don't get me wrong I am not saying you must show your dick or your wife's privates but show your body's so people can see and drool over it.
And lastly a suggestion speak to the wife and meet some couples with Bi ladies trust me its much easier go into soft swinging to start your fantasy with, trust me it will start out as soft swinging but if the mood is right the ladies will take it from there and contrary to some believe most of us are gentlemen and will not touch your wive if you or her does not consent to it but we will still have a fabulous time watching the ladies. Then people will start to know you you will get credentials and single ladies will hear it and before you know it you are having fun with all the ladies you and your wive can handle
Just my take on this
Ps and please don't take anything I said personally you asked and we reply sometimes things are said that you don't want to hear but unfortunately must hear for thing to get better
