Well all can say we all have our own opinion, what a world it would be if we all have to agree men are from Mars woman from Venus, hence the The plant is called the Venus Fly trap for a reason, read between the lines if you wish, have a great day or not, whatever blows your hair back, most people here are mostly talk no action anyway.

Suppose you can always ask her to jerk or blow you or even have sex with you to prevent prostrate cancer, some might think why should l do it because then l will land up with all his cash.

Once you married for a few years sex goes on the back burner for most women either that or they get supper horny, most of us do not have such luck. My friends can vouch for that

lf you only get it one or twice a year and your partner bans porn and swinging is for the devil you must get some fun somewhere divorce is not always the answer if have been married for ages and have been divorced before. I have been doing it more than 10 years without any suspicion, it becomes a art after a while.

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Well I don't want argue the fact is I have met many couples over the last 12 years that I told upfront about my status and we had great times. Its just when I joined this website that I saw its a big issue people I met saw my add in the direct Contact magazine or the old Hustler magazine where you placed your ph number directly. I respect your opinion about this issue but I still say each to their own views. If your option is so strong about this just say single married males not welcome and I will pass you by don't pretend what you all high and mighty and what you are doing is accepted by all walks of life. Only do it our way or don't do it at all only our rules will apply to all like a dictatorship. Remember what I said there will only be one person that you have to explain to when leave this earth and that goes for us all not just for people like me. Regards.

Besides its only a issue here in the adult swinging mag with direct contact its not a problem at all.

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I do not see a problem if you married and playing alone, some people think its better to divorce your partner if they not fond of sex rather than finding it elsewere and some couples do not mind if a lady does it but as soon as a man does it its no good. Double standards we are all equal besides I don't see such a big difference in cheating with consent or cheating without, at least a married guy playing alone won't bother the lady trying to get her alone afterwards behind her husbands back and there is less chance of him having a STD. There are always 2 ways to look at things. If you have not walked in my shoes don't judge me.

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I don't see a problem with that if your wife lost interest in the bedroom why not look elsewhere. What is the difference if you cheat with consent or without it, in your makers eyes it is all a sin. Besides if you married at least you should not have a STD some single guys play all over its just my opinion

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