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desmond_swart
Over 90 days ago
Straight White/Caucasian Male, 48
South Africa

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Quote by Voyer1105
Sometimes we say something and it comes out all wrong

Thanks ladies love u all have a blessed day.......maybe one day we can all meet up and have a good time
Des xxx
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Quote by SDMR
I'm scared she shouts at me . . . lol
Desmond, my suggestion to you at this point of this forum would be to rather just leave it where it is. You have your reasons for being on this site, and your reasons for your post, the rest of the people who have commented either in a looking for clarity way or in a let's try help him way or whatever, are people who have considerable knowledge about this life style. rather learn from them than fighting with them.

I agree..........I dont want to argue or any thing..........I think the way she said things was wrong........and surely I don't have any thing to hide........we are all here to play.........no one is here to be threaten to loose their teeth ,and to be told they are disrespectful....towards woman.........so if I said any thing that harm any body I'm sorry.......
Des xxx
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Quote by LeeEC
You sound as if you are offering some kind of service for sale....
How expensive are these married escorts anyway?

And finally I do respect woman,and couples....if they say noo it is no.....its their choice if they want a married man to play with them....and u as a moderator must rather keep your nose out of other peoples life's and what others want....cause its non of ur damm business........make me wonder why u only show body and boobs and not face.......what do u have to hide........at least I don't hide who I am.....,no one is forced to replie to my add,again its by choice...........soo take ur comments,and keep it to ur self....this is a site for every one,
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Quote by LeeEC
This is a conversation we've all had before Desmond... the fact that you are swinging without your partner's knowledge and permission is just the definition of disrespect to most women... particularly ones who are married and would be horrified to discover their partner swinging around without their knowledge...
That's called cheating.
Even if you do it with swingers.
It's certainly not respectful to your wife. And from my perspective (and I expect all the other ladies on the fora married or not will agree with me), if a guy doesn't respect his own wife (the one he actually declared his love for and took as his life partner!) then we simply can't see how he can respect us....

I totally agree with u men that play without there wife's knowing,is cheating.......and really it can go both ways.....do you have respect for your self or your marriage when you as a woman have sex with other men or a nother woman,or otherwise does your husband have respect for you and him self when having sex with other people,......this is call swining and this is a game we are playing a life style that is fun......so why doo you wane judge me as a man for joining this lifestyle.....and my requests.........and to tell you some thing do u think that when partners have sex with others that it is respect........first I don't need to explain any thing to you......firstly cause you don't know me.....we call this fantasy,lust, and the will to have fun with others .......its not just for married ppl
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I'm no pimp.....I'm just talking for all the married men and my self that get rejected by most ppl on swining heaven......and yes ppl got there own preferences..........I can tell you some thing that the married men here are mostly beter lovers than the sngl men,.....and respect woman much better.........so why are there ppl here attacking me for saying that we (me) as a married man also want to play
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You see that's the problem with you ppl why always think negative,we don't want any money we just want fun,and give woman what they desire and need.........and ppl that want to get aggressive go do it at a nother place,my teeth got noting to do with this topic
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Ladies meet married men for straight n.s.a fun,we don't get attached but will give u a time of pleasure and safe romance,....we wil come to you........don't see why married men can't have some fun......come on grls we are just as good in bed....maybe more sexual than the single men