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Yes so enjoy watching Mrs with another guy and joining in

The best a man can get...👌

If I may add my 5 cents worth...the couple who introduced me to 3way fun were my friends...we started off doing business..became friends hanging out having braais going to rugby etc....and then one day in their office was that contact mag on the desk, open on a page and thinking nothing of it I picked it up and they just grinned. The rest is history and we remained friends and playmates for years...

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So never thought we'll rant about the good old days at 40 , but here we are ....

This life used to be "easy". Many of our interactions in the early days went something like : hey , hey , like your profile , thanks we like yours , meet for a drink ? , sure , and you meet. That meeting 8 out of 10 times ment coming home with your underwear in your pocket. Was fun right ?

These days it's months of questioning, Group chats , pictures sharing , phone sex , maybe a call or 2 , scheduling and rescheduling meetings, and eventually you might meet 2 out of 10 people that contacted you , and after you become the very best of friends you might play , or realize you don't want to play because you " value" the friendship too much .

Guys let's face it meeting someone is expensive , more so if you have to travel. Why make contact with someone if you can't meet . Why make contact kilos away if you can't travel or host ?

For us it's easy , we would like a face to face as soon as possible, even n video chat . And then we would like to meet , because that's the point . Meeting people , and if compatible having fun .

These days it's just not what it used to be ... and we can promise you , if you are wondering... meeting and playing is much more fun than sharing pictures and compliments on a group chat for 3 years

😎😎😎...the good old days...now at my age i remember the way it was....sase..with some photos...a letter and a land line number.🤣🤣and a chat to arrange a meet and off you went. There were way more meets because those letters sent and received were almost always replied to....because people were in the lifestyle in the real sense of the way.

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Thing is, promiscuity, lots of sex and lots of partners, while certainly fun and exciting, isn't swinging lifestyle. Its just being promiscuious, something any vanilla can do and many of them do.

You can be totally vanilla and have sex with somebody new everyday, still wouldnt mean you into swinging lifestyle.

Key word is 'lifestyle' i.e more to it than just sex. In fact, it doesnt even need humping involved at all to be lifestyle.

If humping was swinging, then every cheater, prostitute, pornstar, gigalo, player, sexpest and more would all be swingers, which is most definitely not the case.

Absolutely nailed it on the head!!!! So happy you managed to succinctly put it . Cheers

Im sure you as a couple would still maintain the " natural" aspect...and earning cash as a byproduct ....choices

Well said....

Long long ago😎 when younger and a newbie to swinging they werent yet in a bucket list but are now in the bucket....

1) husband driving and me and his wife back seat her legs open and me enjoying her..he had full view.

2) asian couple in the bad ole days when it was ...dpying her...him in her mouth me in her pussy and him and i looking at each other....

3) dvp followed by him in her ass while i was in her pussy...and their afrikaans chatter between themselves....

I miss those days😉

Is the beach open again?

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The anklets are meaningless today. You could end up being slapped silly by some chick who has no idea of its original meaning.

Oh dear...😉😉

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Maybe try normal guys for a change......the hunks is either bullshitting or choosing between 10 options .Or meet with the guy first....if he doesnt make a effort to meet prior to the play he will definately not pitch.

A pity because both couples here are desirable. Sometimes those superhunks are just that...too good to be true and the genuine guys are not considered....

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this is not about the age its about the fun 

 sadly there are too many younger peeps who only want younger.....

allow me to add my 2 pennies worth.

A long time ago i spent a lot of time with one particular couple. It was good until the lady invited me for lunch while hubby was away.......well i just ended it there and then.....

Well interesting subject!

I had for a long time swung with a couple, in those interludes we had occasions where when my cock slipped out his wife, he was at the time licking her pussy and yes i guess he licked my shaft once in a while, held my cock and guided it back into her.

Thats not bi, but im not that paranoid that i would take it to be bi or even curious?

Ive never sucked a guy, or had him suck me intentionally, ie asked for it or suggested it, nor would i want to have a session with a guy alone.

Cheers