Study Reveals the Reasons Straight Men Hook Up With Men

Wondering if any straight guys here actually do this for the reasons guys say they do it in the article. 

So...basically he interviewed 19 guys who are still bullshitting themselves into thinking they are "straight"...? Sad. Getting/giving a blow job from a straight looking masculine guy while your wife is at home doesn't change the fact that you just might be bi-sexual. Admit it, make the relevant choices and go on with your life...

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So...basically he interviewed 19 guys who are still bullshitting themselves into thinking they are "straight"...? Sad. Getting/giving a blow job from a straight looking masculine guy while your wife is at home doesn't change the fact that you just might be bi-sexual. Admit it, make the relevant choices and go on with your life...

 Very true.
Spending any time in the bi/gay guys rooms you soon see that most are still lying to themselves as well as other members.
Just this morning I had a "straight" guy propositioning me for gay sex, wanting bareback sex amongst other things.
When I asked why his profile showed he was straight, he replied that he is straight, but curious.
If he was only curious, how come he mentioned something along the lines of "like having a big cock in me..."
Maybe people should be more honest with themselves and each other.

There are so many bullshitters

They think they are hiding away but it is so easy to identify them

straight men dont hook up with other men...i think they might be fooling themselves...

It's like coffee granules . . . goes into water one way, lands up being something different afterwards. Still coffee, but different. 

do you think all straight men will accept a bj from a man?

In my experience, no, not all,  but many would for the right incentive and at the right time and place. In my efforts ive learned there are many variables that a straight guy take into consideration and often quite a bit of convincing through education and enlightement

See..there's the word..."convincing"...and, mind you...through "education and enlightenment"

First off...convincing someone of their sexual inhibitions comes across and pretty arrogant...and borderline desperate. I don't think I or my partner will ever want to be in a position where we have to "convince" someone of something that pertains to their sexuality.

If the convincing (I'm thinking booze helps here, right?) doesn't help to convince the guy that a bj between some good 'ole straight boys is fine ...does this mean that person remains "unenlightened" and "uneducated"?

We can jump from article to article...but the fact remains...if a straight guy finds himself with a cock in his mouth with a huge grin on his face...awesome. You my friend, is bi curious or even bi now. BUT...trying to convince a straight guy who is comfortable with his sexuality that there is a sweet bi guy hiding in him, that he can embrace through "enlightenment" and "education"...no. No no no. This is borderline to the same arrogant fools who think they can pray gay people straight...or turn them straight through "enlightenment" and "education" I don't really see a difference in the approach...?

It's 2017...do we still need misguided articles and studies for people to accept and respect their own...AND other peoples sexuality?

From a brief read though the reply's to this post, you can see the typical Alpha male type come out. Just because the guy wants to try a dick, HE IS GAY.... Bullshit. The Same Alpha Guys will quickly jump at the chance to have his wife with another girl. Should his wife leave him cause she is now Lesbian. I have seen this over and over, its cool for them to go to the club and his wife will pick up a lady and he will join for a bit of FFm action. Yet when a male guy want to get friendly with the Alpha male type and bring him back for a bit of MMf with his wife. he is shocked and rants "Fucking queer", "Fuck off" have been the few comment my wife and I have heard. So we dont do the clubs anymore.

There is a HUGE difference between MMF fun, and what the study actually pertains too...which was "straight" guys, playing with other "straight" guys without consent from partners. Not sure where you picked up the Alpha Male attitude with people giving opinions on a post...?

I'm actually shocked NO ONE responded to the whole "convincing" issue...

So, at the rusk of also "changing topic direction" . . . my take is,

Any (label removed) guy who hooks up with another (label removed) guy, probably does so for one simple reason . . . and that reason is sex. 

Repeat "offenders" might need to look at themselves shall we say "differently" but I think it all boils down to sexual experiences.

It's not as much a "convincing" issue (what is the problem with the word anyway), to me it's a matter of education, a liberation of the mind and thoughts, previously shaped by single-minded authority like parents and the church, by simply stating the obvious. Sometimes people need a little push to catch a wake up and start thinking for themselves instead of following blindly.  I understand you might not be into guys, no-one expects you to be, but there are levels of being into something or someone. Yes, you're straight, you like girls, no-one is taking that away from you. But its ignorant to think because you now give a guy a gap, that makes you anything but straight. Its that kind of thinking that leave so many in the closet, living lies for fear of being judged, perpetuating gay bashing because God forbid you get judged because you didnt put the queer who complimented you on your nice ass in his place, in front of your friends, so you'd rather save face, than be labeled queer yourself, instead of showing the ignorant fools you're were open minded to know the difference. As SDM put it, its about sex, having an orgasm without depending on Mrs Palmer due to a lack of available opposite sex candidates. Even repeat straight offenders shouldnt risk now being labeled gay because they don't mind where they get their kicks. There'se so much more to being gay or even bi than having your dick sucked by another guy. The term is now sexually fluid I think. The limited, small-minded thinking about what makes you gay or straight is obviously still a long challenge of education ahead. I've seen so many straight guys labeled OBVIOUSLY gay because they play with anal toys. Narrow-minded much?

Lol...let's see..."catch a wake up, ignorant fools, limited small minded thinking, narrow minded"...because someone is ok with his sexuality, and not interested in exploring more?

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I'm sticking with my original response...this entire post smacks of utter arrogance, and displays a lack of respect towards what other people feel about their own sexuality. If your sexually fluid...great, no need to defend or seemingly try and justify the fact (why the hell would you want to?) behind some post about a study that DOESN'T PROOF ANYTHING. I wonder how a gay guy will feel if a straight friend tries to "convince and educate" him that said gay guy not fucking a girl, is just him being narrow minded and ignorant...yeah, that makes sense. Wow. Sad to see we are still stuck with train of thoughts like this.

Here's two cents worth.........if you have thoughts about playing with guys...and gals...you are bi! 

I get where you are coming from @cpl2play, however . . . by the same reasoning application, thinking about cooking a 5 course meal makes you a chef .. . . 

Well interesting subject!

I had for a long time swung with a couple, in those interludes we had occasions where when my cock slipped out his wife, he was at the time licking her pussy and yes i guess he licked my shaft once in a while, held my cock and guided it back into her.

Thats not bi, but im not that paranoid that i would take it to be bi or even curious?

Ive never sucked a guy, or had him suck me intentionally, ie asked for it or suggested it, nor would i want to have a session with a guy alone.

Cheers