Quote by Pussinboots1
Talking about Bisexual guys!!!
I know we had really LONG forums about this before, so I am not really resurrecting the subject.
Today whilst sitting at the dentist awaiting my appointment.
I read an article on Bisexual men and what most *vanilla* women think ( I say *vanilla* as the ladies are not as open and honest about sex as we are here on site)
Interesting thing I read is why most would not like to *date* these men and that made me think about why most men would not *come right out and say they are bisexual*
1) the women are scared the man only say he is bisexual but is in fact gay.
2) the women are scared that most bisexual men can not maintain a monogamous relationship.
3) Then lastly women are scared they get *dumped* for another man.
Knowing that there are certain gay men who does not want to *out* themselves, will in fact call themselves Bisexual.
Why this is I do not know....
I know a LOT of bisexual men who has monogamous relationships,so why this worry is for ladies I could not say.I think it has to do with my own *swing-door relationship* I like the words *swing door* more than *open* relationship...Swing door means I walk in and out.
Now I understand the shame/the self image problems she might have /feel if she is dumped for another man.
Knowing how men feel when their wives or girlfriends drop them for another is all the same really.
My thoughts on the article was that any vanilla ladies should have more open communications going with their there will be less uncertainty.
I myself, like Bisexual men, why should I as a pan-sexual lady, begrudge a man the same?? and yeah I do get turned on when watching two hunks kiss and caress each other. Who would not love watching to males with erections playing?? ermm maybe here is a few of us ladies here....I am NOT one though.
There is so much fun in sitting with my Bisexual male friends and we can discuss ogle *hot sexy women and men*and not one of us is left out...
My ramblings....
Quote by Pussinboots1
Talking about Bisexual guys!!!
I know we had really LONG forums about this before, so I am not really resurrecting the subject.
Today whilst sitting at the dentist awaiting my appointment.
I read an article on Bisexual men and what most *vanilla* women think ( I say *vanilla* as the ladies are not as open and honest about sex as we are here on site)
Interesting thing I read is why most would not like to *date* these men and that made me think about why most men would not *come right out and say they are bisexual*
1) the women are scared the man only say he is bisexual but is in fact gay.
2) the women are scared that most bisexual men can not maintain a monogamous relationship.
3) Then lastly women are scared they get *dumped* for another man.
Knowing that there are certain gay men who does not want to *out* themselves, will in fact call themselves Bisexual.
Why this is I do not know....
I know a LOT of bisexual men who has monogamous relationships,so why this worry is for ladies I could not say.I think it has to do with my own *swing-door relationship* I like the words *swing door* more than *open* relationship...Swing door means I walk in and out.
Now I understand the shame/the self image problems she might have /feel if she is dumped for another man.
Knowing how men feel when their wives or girlfriends drop them for another is all the same really.
My thoughts on the article was that any vanilla ladies should have more open communications going with their there will be less uncertainty.
I myself, like Bisexual men, why should I as a pan-sexual lady, begrudge a man the same?? and yeah I do get turned on when watching two hunks kiss and caress each other. Who would not love watching to males with erections playing?? ermm maybe here is a few of us ladies here....I am NOT one though.
There is so much fun in sitting with my Bisexual male friends and we can discuss ogle *hot sexy women and men*and not one of us is left out...
My ramblings....
