Talking about Bisexual guys!!!
I know we had really LONG forums about this before, so I am not really resurrecting the subject.
Today whilst sitting at the dentist awaiting my appointment.
I read an article on Bisexual men and what most *vanilla* women think ( I say *vanilla* as the ladies are not as open and honest about sex as we are here on site)
Interesting thing I read is why most would not like to *date* these men and that made me think about why most men would not *come right out and say they are bisexual*
1) the women are scared the man only say he is bisexual but is in fact gay.
2) the women are scared that most bisexual men can not maintain a monogamous relationship.
3) Then lastly women are scared they get *dumped* for another man.
Knowing that there are certain gay men who does not want to *out* themselves, will in fact call themselves Bisexual.
Why this is I do not know....
I know a LOT of bisexual men who has monogamous relationships,so why this worry is for ladies I could not say.I think it has to do with my own *swing-door relationship* I like the words *swing door* more than *open* relationship...Swing door means I walk in and out.
Now I understand the shame/the self image problems she might have /feel if she is dumped for another man.
Knowing how men feel when their wives or girlfriends drop them for another is all the same really.
My thoughts on the article was that any vanilla ladies should have more open communications going with their there will be less uncertainty.
I myself, like Bisexual men, why should I as a pan-sexual lady, begrudge a man the same?? and yeah I do get turned on when watching two hunks kiss and caress each other. Who would not love watching to males with erections playing?? ermm maybe here is a few of us ladies here....I am NOT one though.
There is so much fun in sitting with my Bisexual male friends and we can discuss ogle *hot sexy women and men*and not one of us is left out...
My ramblings....
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Orgasminator
I guess people generally fear the worst when it comes to bisexuality, still we live in world where we are told to take sides in most aspects life so I guess when your partner switches over to Switzerland they don't want to buy it and will assume it's a stepping stone. Still I believe love vs lust is a very real argument here
Orgasminator
Still if you are secure in your sexuality then being Bi shouldn't bring you or your partner into question about what they really want. I know that I'm cool playing with other guys, not that I'm ever looking for a m2m play date, but I also know playing with other guys won't change me. I know that in the future I will find a nice girl to settle down with but If I play with another guy it doesn't make me less of a man or anything.
While I won't go so far as to say guys who are nervous of male contact are insecure but if your fear is because you think you might turn gay after one experience then maybe you aren't that comfortable with yourself. Saying that if your partner does want to try out that side of himself then support him reassure each other that you can try out playing on the other side but you you know that home base is with each other.
Anybody get what I'm trying to say?
Sex God
Quote by Mike_Pta
Still if you are secure in your sexuality then being Bi shouldn't bring you or your partner into question about what they really want. I know that I'm cool playing with other guys, not that I'm ever looking for a m2m play date, but I also know playing with other guys won't change me. I know that in the future I will find a nice girl to settle down with but If I play with another guy it doesn't make me less of a man or anything.
While I won't go so far as to say guys who are nervous of male contact are insecure but if your fear is because you think you might turn gay after one experience then maybe you aren't that comfortable with yourself. Saying that if your partner does want to try out that side of himself then support him reassure each other that you can try out playing on the other side but you you know that home base is with each other.
Anybody get what I'm trying to say?
@mike_pta, yes I get what you are trying to say. ONLY THING IS . . . . . . . you don't turn gay, you either are or you are not. . . .shhhh, did you hear that? it sounded like a whole bunch of people reacting in a less than positive manner to what I wrote . . . .
Orgasminator
@SDMR your gonna get us in trouble here for exposing the truth 
:wink:
:wink: Both of you are correct one does NOT turn gay...your orientation is either gay or straight or you like both sexes then you are bisexual....or in my case pan-sexual.
Anyone claiming they turned gay after a sexual interlude with the same gender,was or is either a closet gay person.
My own little pet thinking is.....and here I am flying solo and blind in my I MAY get shot here.
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As a male`s prostate is their little *g-spot* the chances are that any male will like the penetration,IF the anal penetration was done safely and sensually.
As the sexual interlude is happening, they get stimulated as the prostate is stimulated with each thrust.
Thus their orgasm will be so much stronger and with much more fireworks....than normal sex with a female.
So any male who still gets aroused by females but thinking of the joy they had with a male, in my eyes is NOT gay but bisexual....or even bisexual opportunistic. really.
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As a male`s prostate is their little *g-spot* the chances are that any male will like the penetration,IF the anal penetration was done safely and sensually.
As the sexual interlude is happening, they get stimulated as the prostate is stimulated with each thrust.
Thus their orgasm will be so much stronger and with much more fireworks....than normal sex with a female.
So any male who still gets aroused by females but thinking of the joy they had with a male, in my eyes is NOT gay but bisexual....or even bisexual opportunistic. really.
Huh Huh? G-spot really? - now I'm becoming 'opportunistic straight & curious' :twisted:
Orgasminator
I like that Bi- opportunistic one, that could fit me. Bi-in-the-moment?
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As a male`s prostate is their little *g-spot* the chances are that any male will like the penetration,IF the anal penetration was done safely and sensually.
As the sexual interlude is happening, they get stimulated as the prostate is stimulated with each thrust.
Thus their orgasm will be so much stronger and with much more fireworks....than normal sex with a female.
This is why I so love the p-play and pegging fun we have! Mr E's orgasms are soooo much more intense with this. His main reason for not being bi or even bi curious is more an issue of trust than whether it is a female or male playing. At this point *back there* I doubt if he will trust anyone but me since it is a sensitive area.
Orgasminator
True but I wouldn't call anal penetration by another guy as a requirement for bi play/ experimentation. Still nothing wrong with bringing a bi guy in to join a couple, that way if you want to experiment then you know he is game. Also a bi guy will be cool with accidental man contact
Morning Mike..
Very true the possibility of male penetration during a 3 way with a lady is very very slim.
Doing a nice double penetration, you males do feel each others penises rubbing against each other through the thin layer of skin dividing the anal area from the that is what freaks most men.....
We are not even talking a double penetration vaginally, here that is even MUCH CLOSER ,it is direct contact.
Now just also imagine if one penis slips out, and the one guy has to help put it back in place...(that also happens more than what people realize) he he another touching experience.....
Not to talk if the testicles slam each other
OH boy this is truly a night mare for homophobic`s.
Sex God
Quote by Pussinboots1
Morning Mike..
Very true the possibility of male penetration during a 3 way with a lady is very very slim.
Doing a nice double penetration, you males do feel each others penises rubbing against each other through the thin layer of skin dividing the anal area from the that is what freaks most men.....
We are not even talking a double penetration vaginally, here that is even MUCH CLOSER ,it is direct contact.
Now just also imagine if one penis slips out, and the one guy has to help put it back in place...(that also happens more than what people realize) he he another touching experience.....
Not to talk if the testicles slam each other
OH boy this is truly a night mare for homophobic`s.
I hope you realise that those of us who are this way inclined, are now finding ourselves HORNY . . . . . (Yes, Yes, Yes and also those who claim not to be . .
:rotflmao::rotflmao
))) Orgasminator
Now imagine a lady stuck with 2 of those non-contact guys tip-toeing around her trying to avoid man contact. Being curious here helps
Quote by Pussinboots1
Morning Mike..
Very true the possibility of male penetration during a 3 way with a lady is very very slim.
Doing a nice double penetration, you males do feel each others penises rubbing against each other through the thin layer of skin dividing the anal area from the that is what freaks most men.....
We are not even talking a double penetration vaginally, here that is even MUCH CLOSER ,it is direct contact.
Now just also imagine if one penis slips out, and the one guy has to help put it back in place...(that also happens more than what people realize) he he another touching experience.....
Not to talk if the testicles slam each other
OH boy this is truly a night mare for homophobic`s.
Okey.....wonder if Mr E actually thought of all this since one of our main still to do fantasy is a dp....I know he is aware of the thin skin but helping when one slips out...... should I tell him?
Sex God
Quote by Erotic_Nauty
Morning Mike..
Very true the possibility of male penetration during a 3 way with a lady is very very slim.
Doing a nice double penetration, you males do feel each others penises rubbing against each other through the thin layer of skin dividing the anal area from the that is what freaks most men.....
We are not even talking a double penetration vaginally, here that is even MUCH CLOSER ,it is direct contact.
Now just also imagine if one penis slips out, and the one guy has to help put it back in place...(that also happens more than what people realize) he he another touching experience.....
Not to talk if the testicles slam each other
OH boy this is truly a night mare for homophobic`s.
Okey.....wonder if Mr E actually thought of all this since one of our main still to do fantasy is a dp....I know he is aware of the thin skin but helping when one slips out...... should I tell him?
Perhaps you should . . . . but I would think he would be ok with it because he is helping to fulfill a fantasy for you both.
Orgasminator
Maybe he might be more comfortable with his naked fellow man in future also. DP is awesome but let's also keep Mr E happy also, I'm sure no guy wants to join in with the fear of a fist in the back of his mind.
Sex God
Quote by Mike_Pta
Maybe he might be more comfortable with his naked fellow man in future also. DP is awesome but let's also keep Mr E happy also, I'm sure no guy wants to join in with the fear of a fist in the back of his mind.
Ok, so are we to take from the "fear of fist" that you are the violent aggressive type?
:rotflmao::rotflmao:oh, where is Stamina and Georgeous when I need help . . . .
@Mike-Pta, did the ladies not warn you about how we run away with things here . . .
Quote by SDMR
Maybe he might be more comfortable with his naked fellow man in future also. DP is awesome but let's also keep Mr E happy also, I'm sure no guy wants to join in with the fear of a fist in the back of his mind.
Ok, so are we to take from the "fear of fist" that you are the violent aggressive type?
:rotflmao::rotflmao:oh, where is Stamina and Georgeous when I need help . . . .
@Mike-Pta, did the ladies not warn you about how we run away with things here . . .
Can I budge in (non violently!)?
I'm as str8 (and opportunistic of lately!) as an arrow, and if it happens that I need to be really close to my male 'team mate' in a 3-some and have to give a helping hand to ensure maximum pleasure to the lady??? Man, I'll sommer take it out give it a few jerks and put it back again!! The odd (or lots of touching) touching would be the same as a rugby match preparing to scrum or participating in a loose scrum where a man has to do what he must do!! It's all about focus!? :twisted:
Ermmm Humm! SDMR as I remember we don't run away, we just duck and dive? SWING with the punches!?
Sex God
Quote by Gerrie2012
Maybe he might be more comfortable with his naked fellow man in future also. DP is awesome but let's also keep Mr E happy also, I'm sure no guy wants to join in with the fear of a fist in the back of his mind.
Ok, so are we to take from the "fear of fist" that you are the violent aggressive type?
:rotflmao::rotflmao:oh, where is Stamina and Georgeous when I need help . . . .
@Mike-Pta, did the ladies not warn you about how we run away with things here . . .
Can I budge in (non violently!)?
I'm as str8 (and opportunistic of lately!) as an arrow, and if it happens that I need to be really close to my male 'team mate' in a 3-some and have to give a helping hand to ensure maximum pleasure to the lady??? Man, I'll sommer take it out give it a few jerks and put it back again!! The odd (or lots of touching) touching would be the same as a rugby match preparing to scrum or participating in a loose scrum where a man has to do what he must do!! It's all about focus!? :twisted:
Ermmm Humm! SDMR as I remember we don't run away, we just duck and dive? SWING with the punches!?
Watch this space ( I have a meeting quick) you have opened a can of worms . . . . . . .
Orgasminator
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Emagine being in 69 with wife, him pumping away and he slips out and into your mouth
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I'll be happy to be in the 69 while the hubby goes to town
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Talking about Bisexual guys!!!
I know we had really LONG forums about this before, so I am not really resurrecting the subject.
Today whilst sitting at the dentist awaiting my appointment.
I read an article on Bisexual men and what most *vanilla* women think ( I say *vanilla* as the ladies are not as open and honest about sex as we are here on site)
Interesting thing I read is why most would not like to *date* these men and that made me think about why most men would not *come right out and say they are bisexual*
1) the women are scared the man only say he is bisexual but is in fact gay.
2) the women are scared that most bisexual men can not maintain a monogamous relationship.
3) Then lastly women are scared they get *dumped* for another man.
Knowing that there are certain gay men who does not want to *out* themselves, will in fact call themselves Bisexual.
Why this is I do not know....
I know a LOT of bisexual men who has monogamous relationships,so why this worry is for ladies I could not say.I think it has to do with my own *swing-door relationship* I like the words *swing door* more than *open* relationship...Swing door means I walk in and out.
Now I understand the shame/the self image problems she might have /feel if she is dumped for another man.
Knowing how men feel when their wives or girlfriends drop them for another is all the same really.
My thoughts on the article was that any vanilla ladies should have more open communications going with their there will be less uncertainty.
I myself, like Bisexual men, why should I as a pan-sexual lady, begrudge a man the same?? and yeah I do get turned on when watching two hunks kiss and caress each other. Who would not love watching to males with erections playing?? ermm maybe here is a few of us ladies here....I am NOT one though.
There is so much fun in sitting with my Bisexual male friends and we can discuss ogle *hot sexy women and men*and not one of us is left out...
My ramblings....
Flippin ell... the thought of two sexy males together absolutely gets me feeling instantly slippery... gosh if only I could convince my husband that this is truly the case... hmmmmm
