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2 hours ago
Straight White/Caucasian Male, 53
0 km · Middelburg

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. . . . . making reference to your post about why one would "abandone" the site. 

@Wolfman, dealing with posts of a certain nature, and not having your views taken as law . . . . somewhat of a difference there. 

you see now, spoken like a true information seeker.

While I am almost entirely of the same view as yourself, I think the problem is that people were never really allowed to have opinion. Whenever a person did, there was a particular Mod who was very quick to pour water on said opinion. 

Anyway, like you say, the forum is not what it used to be, or even what it could be. The only way (seemingly) to get people to give input, is to bring up the cultural differences in the country, or alternatively to jump down someone's throat for sharing their opinion. 

But, this is of course only my opinion. 

90% of people who use the term, probably just heard it somewhere and don't even know what it means.

So @mike_pta, you are suggesting promiscuous sex on the ground in the dirt then? I really have to wonder why there are not more people like you, that's a brilliant idea rotflmao

while I almost agree with what has been said about ownership etc etc etc, the bigger picture is still the impact it has on other people . . . . children, husband . . . . 

There is something in the concept of "responsibility" 

I simply don't keep those kinds of pics on a phone. Mostly because I have teenage children, but yes, also because to er is human. 

minimal traffic jams here, but so many other things that make up for it . . ..:sticky:

very much so Wolfman,

This is one of the very few boxes I have left to tick off

One could always have the "what if" chat before play begins

So, I was chatting to a friend of mine the other day about experiences we would still like to have. She "accused" me of being the biggest reason I have not "ticked" some of the Items off the to do list. 

On reflection, I would have to say that she was right, I do sometimes (often) not allow a situation to play out and subsequently opportunities go by unused. Now I'm not talking about dodgy situations. Just those times when even with a familiar playmate, that one specific boundary is left intact . . . . . 

Anybody else have something similar? 

Parkrun cant really be classified as a place for runners can it? It takes runners more than 5km just  to warm up! blinkrotflmao:rotflmao:

a very valid train of thought!

Maybe its all about the thrill??? But then again, I have to wonder how many "uncontrolled" glory holes actually exist outside of the fantasy world. 

why????

It seems to have gone back in time perfectly fine!!!!bolt

fair comment Mike,

My guess is if it was "labelled" as "acceptable" from the beginning, the majority of people would find both equally appealing. 

The human mind is so easily conditioned, regardless of how much we like to claim we are our own people  

@Voyer, you have such a gift of explanation. :thumbup:

One just has to look at the amount of "views" the posts get and one can see that people are still interested. In what way is debatable, but nonetheless the interest seems to be there. 

I think a fair number of the so called "old regulars" are just a little tired of some of the reactions! But hey, that's just my opinion . . . . . based on various conversations with some if the said individuals of course.

yes it is about respect, manners, hygiene and personality among many other things. But right at the top of that list is a little old thing called honesty. Always best to clear up minor appearance issues right at the beginning (perhaps) 

Its not about complexion. Its about choice.

Just like the government can choose to . . . . . oh its just not worth it.

There are more than enough people who choose to play with people of different complexion, so why certain people continue to target those who do not choose to is beyond me!  

you jest? I seriously had a blank moment for a while. 

BUT, delivery versus PERFORMANCE?  


and wasnt it just so obvious what the V stood for . . . . .  oooops

Excuse me quickly while I consult with my good friend Google . . . . 

ecurity guards have no authority to arrest you for such things. All they can do is call the cops, by the time they arrive, one could have multiple orgasms

AlllllllRightyyyyyyy then . . . . ??? DAFUQ?????