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SDM

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Straight White/Caucasian Male, 54

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7 Apr 2016

One just has to look at the amount of "views" the posts get and one can see that people are still interested. In what way is debatable, but nonetheless the interest seems to be there.

I think a fair number of the so called "old regulars" are just a little tired of some of the reactions! But hey, that's just my opinion . . . . . based on various conversations with some if the said individuals of course.

6 Apr 2016

yes it is about respect, manners, hygiene and personality among many other things. But right at the top of that list is a little old thing called honesty. Always best to clear up minor appearance issues right at the beginning (perhaps)

17 Mar 2016

Dude,

You've just answered your own question.

17 Mar 2016

Its not about complexion. Its about choice.

Just like the government can choose to . . . . . oh its just not worth it.

There are more than enough people who choose to play with people of different complexion, so why certain people continue to target those who do not choose to is beyond me!

16 Mar 2016

you jest? I seriously had a blank moment for a while.

BUT, delivery versus PERFORMANCE?

14 Mar 2016

and wasnt it just so obvious what the V stood for . . . . . oooops

14 Mar 2016

Excuse me quickly while I consult with my good friend Google . . . .

15 Feb 2016

ecurity guards have no authority to arrest you for such things. All they can do is call the cops, by the time they arrive, one could have multiple orgasms

8 Feb 2016

Agreed

4 Feb 2016

AlllllllRightyyyyyyy then . . . . ??? DAFUQ?????

4 Feb 2016

Yes, I think someone could be curious forever, the only thing with that is that they are actually only trying to fool themselves.

I think you said it perfectly, after a few times, you are either one or the other, and if you have another go, then I guess it's pretty clear which one.

LeeEC could have something as well, but Bi-Friendly is (to me) still Bi . . . or maybe just downright greedy, hang on, that kindof sounds like me . . . . greedy!!!!

1 Feb 2016

A Knee in the Face????? well, I guess it's better than a Knee in the nuts. bolt

1 Feb 2016

Very little beats a good blowjob, becuase lets be honest, people who can give a good one are not easy to find. But like with any form of sex, crap sex is still good sex. haha

15 Jan 2016

Like Redbruce said, I have also experienced different things with different partners. As for preferred position, mmmmm, again totally depends on partner, but a lady on her tummy is always a great way to start.

14 Jan 2016

I myself have two or three. My first one, done 20 years ago, is something I "regret" today (poor choice of image) and am currently looking to have covered with something more appropriate. I agree with PIB, they do have their place, but art is important.

11 Jan 2016

and I will be number three . . . .

29 Dec 2015

So 2 things jump out at me!!!!! 1) take advantage of her . . . . 2) cum anywhere you want !!!!!! Ummmm, translated, they could be interpreted as 1) 2) disease . . . . But hey, not my fantasy . . . . . . .

30 Nov 2015

Bonk

18 Nov 2015

Quote by Voyer1105
Just browsing and I notice again that most of the females are Bi and the men straight, evan though I saw one lurking in the Bi chatroom
I think it is time we are honest, men it is so obvious when you try all kinds of tricks, you give yourself away in small ways and I wonder how many of the bi females exhist

rotflmao

:rotflmao:
I am sure they exist . . . . in the heads of the profile owners
:rotflmao::rotflmao:

29 Oct 2015

check the "sticky tabs"

26 Oct 2015

another truth, Man who does not do housework, has dirty house when wife not home

26 Oct 2015

My thoughts are that it is not so much that an Egg Plant is powerful, but rather that the world we live in is weak. Weak in a sense that all the majority of us do is moan and find offense in most things.

15 Oct 2015

Specifically of the Minora variety!!!! The longer the better, the plumper the better, hell, the closer the better

15 Oct 2015

Quote by Mike_Pta
Personally i don't trust those video courses. I think the best way to learn is to talk to a lady as see what she likes. I also prefer reading over watching, I find I loose interest in videos but a book stimulates me more.
Still it's an interesting link, but one I feel has been repeated a lotion the Internet.

I have to echo Mike_Pta's comments on this.
It's much like Penis enlargement, if that shit worked, 90% of all men would have dicks too large to have sex with.

2 Oct 2015

Quote by VoyeurMan
Thats how you pull girls LOL

No No No!!!! Intoxicated "strange" is never a safe bet.

2 Oct 2015

Quote by VoyeurMan

Also I've been with couples that show everything on their pages and others who don't. Guess who I have better conversations with.

The ones who do more what YOU prefer!!!! I really hope you were not thinking the conversation was better because of their choices???? Its simply because you take a different approach to those profiles
I take every conversation with a pinch of salt.....like this one for instance ;)
Everything should be taken with salt, everything except for an open wound that is. rotflmao

rotflmao

Dont forget tequila.... lol

lol

Nope, tequila is for girls!

2 Oct 2015

Quote by Pussinboots1
@ SDMR
You should actually always keep salt handy wth an open wound...it is what is used on wounds these days.

Sounds less than comfortable!!!! :shock:

1 Oct 2015

Quote by VoyeurMan

Also I've been with couples that show everything on their pages and others who don't. Guess who I have better conversations with.

The ones who do more what YOU prefer!!!! I really hope you were not thinking the conversation was better because of their choices???? Its simply because you take a different approach to those profiles
I take every conversation with a pinch of salt.....like this one for instance ;)
Everything should be taken with salt, everything except for an open wound that is. rotflmao

rotflmao

1 Oct 2015

Quote by Mike_Pta
Also I've been with couples that show everything on their pages and others who don't. Guess who I have better conversations with.

The ones who do more what YOU prefer!!!! I really hope you were not thinking the conversation was better because of their choices???? Its simply because you take a different approach to those profiles

1 Oct 2015

And yet when certain other contributors took others "head on" they were told their fortunes ??????? I maybe need to go get the dictionary out and have another look at the meaning of the word "opinion" I might even check the word "undertone" as well!!! Voyuer man, some things are just not worth it, and yes, the next time you walk through a pub, make sure you have a "Drink" in your hand, or is that also not acceptable?