Male, part of a couple. Three ladies in one night.

Everyone has their own expectations of a club. If you don't try yourself, you will never know. We have been there twice and didn't enjoy it because of the large number of "observers" present when we were there. Another night might be different.

We have been in this lifestyle longer than some of our new members have been alive. We have been very active and had a lot of fun, most of it originating here. The pool was a great place to get to know people, as were wall posts. What happened? Where are the real swingers we knew? If they have moved on... can we get a hands up from the new real swingers?

I don't need to watch if Zel is being pleasured as long as I know she is being pleasured.

I manage our couple's profile as my wife has no interest in social media. Similar issues. A dick in my eye when open a mail or message in the pool. Only share pics with those who have spent getting time to know you. The guys in a hurry can download pics without the hassle.

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If you know you’re going down on someone or someone’s going down on you, eat pineapple. 🍍 lots of it. Makes everything taste and smell better. Avoid onions, curry and asparagus 😬

Does the pineapple have to be on pizza? That is a bridge too far for me... Just teasing!

It seems to be a part of playing that is not done much or is not spoken about much. Ladies are often surprised when they experience it for the first time. 😉

Is that caring too much or controlling too much? The only time I would ask my wife to check in is if I know she is traveling far or has to go to a dangerous area. Too much care might be a lack of trust. If anyone is at that point, the problem is already there. No attack, just an opinion.

Wow! There are guys who don't like going down south? I wouldn't push it in until I have done my best in other areas. Foreplay is the main course. The finish is dessert.

The WOTs are plentiful and walk among us. It is like the dog that eventually catches the car. You talk and talk and talk and when it comes to an actual meetup you get the silences, slow responses and then the excuses. Oh well.

I don't deny anyone the right to have their boundaries. The "no kissing" rule is one that I would struggle with. Kissing is one of the first acts of foreplay for me. Can't have a great meal without a good starter...

We haven't been for a long time, but for those considering going... just do it. If you think you are "too big", don't. There are all sizes and shapes there. If you fear the perves, they are the ones not welcome. Not you. It is a place where nudity is key. Not that I have any experience but after dark fun does happen, just discreetly as children are around.

Hi.... I'm new here. Not really.... Been around this site and the lifestyle for ages. Just never used the forum before.

A qualified yes. Not about to proposition our close friends but if the conversation with a friend goes in that direction and it becomes a mutual agreement as per the arrangement with my lady, then yes. Many lifestylers would probably agree with my next point. We are already playing with close friends, even if we first met them in the lifestyle and they then became close friends. Some really beaut souls in the lifestyle that I keep close to me even if we no longer play.