Wow, thanks for the speedy replies. We're certain now that we made the right move! we'll definitely check out the club alternative and browse around for couples in our area.
now... blonde question, but how the hell do i upload pics if it keeps telling me it wont upload jpegs that are the right size. lol
have a super saturday,
Paige and John
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PaigeT78
Over 90 days ago
Bisexual Female, 46
Straight Male, 54
0 km · Gauteng
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Hi hi,
My fiance of five years and I (34 and 41 respectively) have been keen to get into the lifestyle - I'm pretty much an exhibitionist and Loved One is a keen voyeur, however, I'm terrified of pitching up at a party or club and being left to my own devices i.e. not having anyone to show me the ropes - and ultimately ending up where I did at my matric farewell - in the corner envying those who were having a great time! hahahha...
So, my question is, are there actually chaparones or, call them, guides, so to speak who take newbies under their wing for an hour or so just to familiarise them with the vibe/people/rules/ etc? Also, how clique-like is the scene really? Are newbies generally welcomed or frowned upon?
We are open minded, very sensual and enjoy the company of respectful and likeminded people - but - what exactly is the right or at least mildly successful way to embark on a first time party or club. And having said that, which is better first time around... a club or party?
Yours in humble narcissism and joy at finally being FREE!!!
Paige
