Cool post LeeEC ..... and your pics show the effort you've put in ... .lovely!!
Agreed good hygiene is a given .... and some recent grooming is important for me as well
So here's a new topic ....
Is it important to you that the couple/person that you are swinging with is in good physical shape? I'm not talking gym bunnies, but at least physically fit and relatively slim .... or are you happy that they might be carrying a couple of extra kilo's as long as there is a connection with them??