@SDM, I was pitching the debate levels higher. I'm not bothered by another person's choice, I'm bothered by what informs their choice.

It's like when Government becomes part of a response to a statement on Swingers Heaven, it could reflect a poor display of separating issues and I wonder what informs that.

Unless there is scientific evidence to prove that a person's complexion relates to how they experience sex or sexuality, let's not ask awkward question like; Have you been with a white woman before or, a white man before or, a black man before or, a black woman before.

It's awkward, unnecessary and it says a lot about the person asking such a question.

@Mike, I agree with you a 100%. It's not BDSM and hence I wrote it with semi-quotations, my context is on based on Pleasure & Pain.

Sounds like been properly through BDSM though. 

There's a technique in Rwanda called Kunyaza, read-up on it.

When snacking on pussy, I sip on hot and icy water then switch on intervals. The reaction is often great and so are the rewards, has anyone else here introduced their own 'BDSM' tendencies? 

Hello er'body, Nsizwa is my name and it's great to be amongst all of you who own their sex. I hope to make and meet-up with many of you.   

Man: Do I know you or you just look familiar?

Woman:...maybe I look familiar.

Man: Can I get to know you?

It works better in is'Zulu, but it works.