BDSM

When snacking on pussy, I sip on hot and icy water then switch on intervals. The reaction is often great and so are the rewards, has anyone else here introduced their own 'BDSM' tendencies? 

I don't think water and cunnilingus counts as bdsm since I can't see it fitting into the bdsm triangle.

The B and D stands for bondage and discipline.

D and S stands for domination and submission.

Lastly S and M stands for sadism and masochism.

Maybe the ice could fall under SM but I think it would be considered tame compared to what I've seen from some peoples sadism. Still interesting topic since I was collared at sound barrier and I was restricted to my leash at the party.

@Mike, I agree with you a 100%. It's not BDSM and hence I wrote it with semi-quotations, my context is on based on Pleasure & Pain.

Sounds like been properly through BDSM though. 

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I don't think water and cunnilingus counts as bdsm since I can't see it fitting into the bdsm triangle.

The B and D stands for bondage and discipline.

D and S stands for domination and submission.

Lastly S and M stands for sadism and masochism.

Maybe the ice could fall under SM but I think it would be considered tame compared to what I've seen from some peoples sadism. Still interesting topic since I was collared at sound barrier and I was restricted to my leash at the party.

In my humble opinion. Most people out there never even realize they are in actual fact *kinky* when they use a vibrator or do some *face sitting* ,or like anal play doing a little *rimming* or even just playfully slapping their partner on the ass when they having hair or tickling their those nail scratches on the back, can be though off as *kinky*.

Just as the use of the ice/hot water can be thought of as kinky during *sensation* play.

By holding your partners hands and arms stretched above their heads during intercourse,can be thought of as bondage really! You are preventing him or her to *move* freely by doing this, only thing is, you are not using rope or something else. 

If there is anyone out there not doing t least some of the above, well they will be totally vanilla.

Only people who uses a little *more / extreme* sometimes are thought to be sadist and masochists by the majority of the population.

@  Nsizwa, Now to be really KINKY you have to try using real ice, JUST  remember you have to keep the ice in your MOUTH (or dip it in water) and then only insert it in the ladies vagina with your tongue and lips, you can in actual fact HARM the lady if you try and insert it directly out of the freezer into a wet vagina. It will burn her as it sticks to the wet vagina walls. By popping in as many ice cubes you can, penetrate your partner with the ice inside her, THAT will give YOU more sensation as well.

As for the ladies/gay men,  NOTHING wrong to insert *WET* ice cubes into  gents anally before you *peg* the way, ice water is GOOD idea,some people like to use any hot beverage but the only one to use is really hot tea and not coffee.