I've known Tom a long time. Close on 30yrs now. His sister is my best friend and he was the first older guy I had a crush on. I was maybe 16, he 22, and he knew it. Ever the gentleman he didn't even entertain me, I was after all, 6yrs younger than him and couldn't quite play it cool like women his age. He went to varsity in another province, his family moved houses and I didn't see him again until about 10yrs later. It wa...