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KC_
1 day ago
Pan White/Caucasian Non-binary, 37
Heteroflexible White/Caucasian Cis Male, 39
0 km · Edenvale
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I agree with redbruce, LeeEC and mydream.
SH has provided a platform for me to read and "talk" about sex on a daily basis, with like-minded people.
It has normalised my sexual thoughts and desires, as well as the fact that I think about sex as much as I do!
Being able to interact on the forums with men and women who are just as horny, and sexually open-minded has been very liberating for me.
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C
I am terrible with abbreviations! I have to make an effort to remember what is being said!
Just a side note, my family uses them a little differently, so its important to know who you are talking to:
LOL - Lots of Love
WTF - With the Family
I had to ask what my mom what she meant by WFT when she was using it on Facebook, and didnt seem to mean What the Fuck!
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C
What happened to all our new contributers?
I know that it is the weekend, and many people have been busy with their playdates etc...
But this week was really slow with comments too.... 
PIB I love your wink idea! I can only hope that it works!
I can see all the lurkers! I promise to comment if the conversation peeks my interest!
So lets get this going again! New Peeps, I see you! :twisted: Now we want to hear*read* what you have to say!!
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C
PIB I love your wink idea! I can only hope that it works!
I can see all the lurkers! I promise to comment if the conversation peeks my interest!
So lets get this going again! New Peeps, I see you! :twisted: Now we want to hear*read* what you have to say!!
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C We have been trying to get back into the swing of things with regards to our gym routine... and we have been struggling this year!
Last week I think we managed to *just* get to the gym for a few minutes and were exhausted!
Tonight I think I found the trick for *perservering* on the stationary bike...
I was listening to some great music, and trolling the site. I had read all the new comments in the forum and started reading one of the new stories... when I finished the story and looked up at the screan, I had done nearly double the distance which I had barely managed last week! I was all hot, and had to think about whether it was the story, the workout or a combination.... :twisted:
Must say, it was the easiest bike workout of my life!
So, what I guess I am saying, is please can you wonderful people write more stories for me? 
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C
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C So, as I have nothing of interest or value to add to the current forums, I figured I would start my own 
Every now and then, when I am taking a break from actual work, I log onto the forum in the hope that one of you has added/commented/done something on the fora that will distract me for a few moments....
Only to discover that NO-ONE has anything to add!
Then I get disappointed, and wait until the next opportunity for me to log on and check again.
Am I the only one who does this??
Now I realise I am one of the culprits that read, think to myself *that's awesome, wish there was a LIKE button* and move on.... I always comment when I have something to add... but that is not often.
At one point I logged on and there were 10 people in the forums, and none of us had anything to add?
Just thought I would make some of you happy to see a new forum and a little green icon :twisted:
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C
Every now and then, when I am taking a break from actual work, I log onto the forum in the hope that one of you has added/commented/done something on the fora that will distract me for a few moments....
Only to discover that NO-ONE has anything to add!
Then I get disappointed, and wait until the next opportunity for me to log on and check again.
Am I the only one who does this??
Now I realise I am one of the culprits that read, think to myself *that's awesome, wish there was a LIKE button* and move on.... I always comment when I have something to add... but that is not often.
At one point I logged on and there were 10 people in the forums, and none of us had anything to add?
Just thought I would make some of you happy to see a new forum and a little green icon :twisted:
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C We have a couple vibrating cock rings
They are a fun idea, but sadly, the vibrations are not strong enough for me... Also, every time you change position you have to move the vibrating bit around so that it stays on the same side as my clit for the different positions...
We even bought one where you can replace the batteries... but keep fogetting to check what size watch battery fits. I think one day I'm just going to walk into dischem with my cockring and ask for watch batteries that will fit... sadly... the person who helps me is not likely to have any idea what the strange looking object is...
The vibrating issue which Camfun speaks about it very true, we all have different thresholds, and even those personal preferences change... somedays a light vibration does wonders, other days.... well... thank goodness there are speed controls on all of my toys!
The Lilo has 5 different intensity speeds, which is great, and also has 4 different pulsating settings (I have mentioned this in a post last year) which you can combiine with the speed intensity of your choice.
Surely other people on the forums have toys too? Or at least opinions?
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C
So, out of all the toys we currrently have...
Roger Rabit is my favourite for self-pleasure.... It has the little rabbit for clit stimulation, and the most amazing sensations from the shaft. The shaft has beads along the bottom, which sit at the entrance of your vagina, and rotate!!!! its like having a little massage just at the entrance to your favourite place... and the head spins along with the rotation of the beads....
Quite the sensation overload! :twisted:
Then we have a little Lilo vibe.
It is a small egg shaped vibe which fits in the palm of your hand. It can be held against the clit during sex. Works amazingly for doggy!
We have a wishlist too....
But I will post my toy wishlist another time...
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C
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CLast night we re-discovered the sensual pleasure of ice!
Just running a small piece of ice around your parnter's body. Then licking off the melted ice.
The sensation from COLD to warm is wonderful!
Especially when you get to nipples, thighs, genitals...
We were squirming all over the place!
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C
Voyer, we also use sms's to get things going sometimes...
When I know K_ is having a long day at work, and may not have the energy to do much more than eat, shower and sleep when he gets home. I like to provide a little incentive throughout the day for what will happen if he happens to find some energy....
most of the sms's are about how thinking about him is making me wet
or just a little message about what I would like to do to him *right now* if I could...
And with the aid of technology... I often send him pics of my breasts or something... ;) Just have to call first and subtly find out if he is in a room full of people then, or able to look at his phone and pitch a tent *safely*
Cruel I know... but he *magically* has energy for me when he gets home....
and he doesn't complain about my methods....
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C
Thanks ;)
There are personalities that appear in the forum whom I find very intriguing. Many are too far away, or out of my comfort zone for age...
But I love reading their posts anyway! Some really do get my imagination working...These fantasies do sound nice!
One of mine is to have my way with another lady. When we have both had enough oral.... is there such a thing?
We pull out a double sided dildo and go crazy on one another.
I prefer this option to the strap on, as the strap on's I have seen provide no stimulation for the lady doing the work... and I think I want to fuck a lady senseless, and receive stimulation at the same time. I think the double dildo will also allow her to fuck me back?
So, its one of my fantasies... not sure if I will ever have the *balls* to actually do it... but thinking about it does the job ;)
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C
