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1 day ago
Pan White/Caucasian Non-binary, 37
Heteroflexible White/Caucasian Cis Male, 39
0 km · Edenvale
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When we were still looking for playmates, our profile clearly stated that we were only interested in people in Gauteng, preferably Jhb, and what ages we were comfortable playing with.
Despite the clear profile write up, and the sentence "if you are outside of this age range and want to play, we will not respond to your messages" we got bombarded by men outside of this age range, who aparently had not learnt how to scroll down to read the "about" section on the profiles they are looking at.
A few of these people sent a few messages, until we sent one back saying that they are outside of our age range, but if they had read our profile, they would know that.
Sorry if this comes across as bitchy, but it gets really tiring having to wade through so many messages from people who hadn't taken the time to read our profile. I felt that it wasn't worth taking the time to reply to them.
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CWhen we were still actively looking for playmates, we got plenty of messages from "people" who were in other countries. Why would we casually meet up with someone who is not even in the country?
We just started ignoring them. The ones we did reply to, didn't even respond back.
We never thought about reporting them to admin. Next time, we will... might save someone else some irrritation.
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I assume we are talking male multiple orgasms?
I have read that men who practice tantra are able to orgasm without ejaculating, which allows them to have multiple orgasms... but I have yet to meet anyone who has mastered this skill/talent.
Female multiple orgasms I fully believe are possible :twisted:
Each one is better than the previous one... *sigh*
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We have started all the topics which we have thought of so far...
Surely the newbies have questions which they want to ask?
Ideas they are curious about?
Thats where new topics get formed and participation comes from.
As soon as something else peaks my interest/curiousity I will post another topic... Until then, if you have something to add, do not wait for someone else to bring up the topic!
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Personally, we have had a "swingers mindset" for years!
We always have discussed who we would like to fuck if given the opportunity, who we would love to watch eachother fuck. We always look around for potential playmates when out... etc
It was a big scary stept to actually google swinging in SA and find this site!
The site is a great platform to find people who are open minded, who share similar likes and fantasies as you. But that does not mean that you are limited to only people from this site!
Especially as a single male! There is an old forum participant, who has been quite for a while, but he manages to find swinging situations where ever he goes! Maybe the guy knows how to read situations and possibilities, and is willing to take the risk? I'm not sure, but he proves my point that swinging in your area is not limited to site membership.
In addition, just because we are in Gauteng does not mean that we are "available" to everyone in GP! When we were looking for playmates, we had a specific age bracket which we prefer to look at, which excludes many of the people who approached us...
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C
What PIB and Vouyer say is true.
However, I think some couples may put bi-male in their search list not because the man is bi. Some straight men are quite uncomfortable with male-male touching, others are less so. If one of the woman's fantasies is to have a DP, a bi-male may be more comfortable with the testicle-touching that happens during a DP, along with any other male-male contact.
What I am trying to say is that just because the bi-male box is ticked, does not mean that the male in the couple is bi.
From another perspective, why should bi men be excluded from searches? They also indulge in male-female interaction, which may be what the couple is looking for.
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C
@RSL and PIB, I hope you enjoy your weekends! It sounds like there are possibilities for enjoyment - if not sexual for RSL - in both of your plans 
Sadly I will be working at a workshop tomorrow...
But then my weekend starts at about 3pm...
My plan is to go home, shower, have some naughty fun before we have a family function to get to...
Sunday is play day... we normally spend about 3-4 hours just being sensual, teasing and playing with eachother :twisted:
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Sadly I will be working at a workshop tomorrow...
But then my weekend starts at about 3pm...
My plan is to go home, shower, have some naughty fun before we have a family function to get to...
Sunday is play day... we normally spend about 3-4 hours just being sensual, teasing and playing with eachother :twisted:
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C PIB! Please stay!
The forum would practically die without your daily input!
I hope that SDMR is referring to people who are not clear about why they are here, and lead people on... who make dates and then never pitch up?
At this point, if he means people like you, that means me too! As we are not meeting anyone at the moment! Which it clearly states on our profile.
Also... I cant talk about sexy stuff with such ease on FB, as I can here 
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Definitely a show I would recommend! They were amazing!
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