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Who is up for dogging on Xmas night in Parow at 21h00 ? The lady will be waiting in her sexy Xmas outfit in the car ready to take on some guys. Those interested inbox me . Location will be shared via inbox

• Who is up for dogging on Xmas night. The lady will be waiting in her sexy Xmas outfit in the car.

• Suggest possible safe venues.

• Those interested in box me

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I would love to join ☺️ did the August one happen? Or is it still in the pipeline

Hi it happened already

Hi guys. Given the success we had in January in CPT it may be a perfect time to arrange another. Wifey had an awesome time and is looking forward to more.

All systems go for tonight. It is gonna be epic

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Inbox with your number

Any glory holes in Cape Town and surrounds?

Hi guys. It is wife's birthday on the 4th of Jan

Any guys up for a gangbang in Cape Town

Inbox us

Any guys available in Cape Town for a mini gangbang on Sunday 20 March?

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Looking for female who wants to have gangbang with 5 guys. Single females or cpls can inbox me

When and where?

A house would be perfect

I was thinking of something specific to identying SH members. Not swingers in general.

Just running the idea pass you guys

Maybe Admin should design and create some sort of symbol to identify members of SH.

They can than sell it to members in the form of rings or bracelets or even T-Shirts.

Those who do not want to be approach at malls or restaurants etc. and who values their privacy outside the lifestyle, have the option not to get the symbol or wear it.

There can be different colours for specific preferences for example:

Blue for everything goes

Yellow for single only

White for same race only

Green for couples only.

The rationale behind this is, that it would be nice if you visit another town, to identify fellow swingers and can have the meet and greet immediately. Especially for those who are only travelling for a short stay.

Maybe Admin should do a Poll on this to test the waters with the members

Organise and wifey is in.

Perhaps Admin should consider creating a section on here to Balcklist those kind of people. Or give them a warning at least that they will be put on the list if they persist with their behaviour.

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Why go to all the trouble of confirming for a party and then not pitch up?! The decent thing to do would be to cancel your confirmation if you're not going to make it! Why let the host's cater for you if you know that you won't be there. I think it is ill mannered and just plain inconsiderate! 😠😠😠

I couldn't agree more. A simple message at least saying that thy can't come. But nothing.

Oh yes

Swingers: Typically a couple in which both partners are allowed to engage in sexual activities with other men and women outside of their relationship, often referred to as “full swap.”

Hotwife:  A wife who has her husband’s permission to engage in sexual activities with other men. Also the term used to describe the fantasy with the same scenario. In this relationship all extra marital activities are approved of by the husband. Trust, respect, and the couple’s love for each other are central to the relationship.

Cuckold: A man in a relationship with a woman who engages in sexual activities with other men and women outside of their relationship, usually with a level of cheating and or humiliation. -Cuckolding

Cuckoldress: The female half of a cuckold relationship. A woman who engages in sex with men other than her husband, usually imposing a level humiliation on her husband about her extra marital activities.

Vixen: One term used to describe a woman in a Hotwife relationship.

Stag: One term used to describe a strong male figure in a Hotwife relationship.

Cucky: A humiliating term used to describe a man in a cuckold relationship.

Bull: The name often given to a wife’s repeat lover in a hotwife or cuckold arrangement

Reclaim: A term used to describe the passionate sex couples often experience the first time they have sex after one of them has has sex with someone outside of their relationship.

Hall Pass: Often used to describe a onetime “free pass” given to one of the members in a relationship to enjoy one sexual encounter with a person outside of the relationship.

Half Open Marriage: Used to describe a relationship in which one member of the relationship has the other‘s permission to enjoy complete sexual freedom, while the one remains completely faithful.

Shared Wife: A wife whose husband “shares” her sexually with other men.

MFM: A three some involving two men and one woman. In this arrangement the men are straight and focus on the woman.

MMF: A three some involving two men and one woman in which the men are bi-sexual and engage in sexual activities with each other as well as the woman.

FMF: A three some involving two women and one man. In this arrangement the women are straight and focus on the man.

FFM: A three some involving two women and one man in which the women are bi-sexual and engage in sexual activities with each other as well as the man.

Humiliation: A sexual kink which usually involves the woman verbally abusing the man about his inadequacies and inability to satisfy her, most often because of his penis size or his lack of stamina.  

Tease and Denial: One partner sexually teases and leads the other on, only to get them excited and then deny them sexual gratification.

Edging: Binging a person right to the edge of orgasm and then slowing or stopping sexual activities thus denying them the pleasure of orgasm.

Ruined Orgasm: Bringing a person right to the point of orgasm, and then stopping resulting in a weak orgasm. This is usually achieved through the use of oral sex or masturbation.

SPH: Small Penis Humiliation, verbal abuse used to humiliate a man about his lack of length and or girth.

Male Chastity: A kink in which the man is most often secured in a chastity device, referred to as a cock cage, and is denied the pleasures of sexual intercourse as well as masturbation.  Couples who engage in this kink often try to push the boundaries of how long the man can go without sexual release. This fetish often includes a level of humiliation as well.

Cock Cage: A metal or plastic device which locks to secure the penis. It is used impede the man’s ability to masturbate as well as achieve a full erection without being release by his key holder.

Key Holder: Most often the wife of a man confined to a cock cage. The key holder has full authority over the man’s ability to and the frequency of orgasms allowed. Often the key holder will use time in the cock cage as a punishment for her dissatisfaction with something the man has said or done.

Pegging: Used to describe a fetish in which the female uses a sex toy or strap on to perform anal sex on her male partner.

Wife Breeding: A fetish in which the wife is involved in unprotected sex with men other than her husband. The men ejaculate in the wife, thus presenting the possibility of pregnancy by men other than the husband.

Clean Up: An activity in which the man cleans up a woman after she has had sex with another man. Most often this is done after a lover has ejaculated into the woman’s vagina and the woman’s partner performs oral sex on her licking up as much of the other man’s sperm as possible.

Sloppy Seconds: A term used to describe the act of having sex with a woman after she has already had sex with another man. Most often after the first man has ejaculated inside of the woman’s vagina creating a “sloppy” situation for the second man.

Size Queen: A woman who prefers man with very large penises. Often with minimum size requirements which must be met before she will engage in sexual intercourse with a man.

BBC: Big Black Cock, used to describe the oversized penis of a black man.

BWC: Big White Cock, used to describe the oversized penis of a white man.

Queen Of Spades: The name sometimes given to a white woman who prefers sex with black men, often with above average penises.

Yes we love it. I think that kind of play is the best

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@freshman So your stance therefore officially is: Its ok to not want to play across color lines. It's ok to reject advances from anybody of a different ethnicity as you - as long as you only think and feel it. But you just can't say it. The action of committing it to writting or vocalizing it are racist. The other actions are fine? Correct?

 Exactly. Be racist if you want to. Do not broadcast it to the world and wear it as a bagde of honor as Playfullpeeps so eloquently put it. Don't show the world how proud you are of your racist preference. It doess not suit the kind of platform where open-minded people frequents. 

And still they are defending racism. Never ending story

No matter how anyone try to defend it is does not boils down to racism, the truth is that it is exactly that. You can think what you want but not say what you want. To publicly broadcast that you do not cross the racial lines is racist.

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We have our own erotica section.  The naming of other sites will go against the site AUP. 

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I post and use a really good site that allows budding authors to enthrall their readers.
there is nothing like sending a really erotic novel to your lover email and then read the same book and send him naughty videos because of it.



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 Hi there. Care to share the details of the site?

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on a overseas trip I answered the door in my g string only  on the waiter could not stop blushing it did turn me on a lot but only did it once but won’t do it South Africa it’s abit risky 

 Nice going. I love the boldness

 Do you think you will do it on SA 

 I think its worth a try here as long as I am with The Mrs every step of the way. Leaving her alone obviously increases the risk. Also you have the advantage of looking out of the window beforehand to see what the delivery guy looks like and amend the plan accordingly

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on a overseas trip I answered the door in my g string only  on the waiter could not stop blushing it did turn me on a lot but only did it once but won’t do it South Africa it’s abit risky 

 Nice going. I love the boldness

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Have contemplated. But this is South Africa. Safety has to take precedence. But have given some bar staff and waitron an "eyefull" on a few occasions...

 That is also a consideration. But is does sounds exciting though. Maybe a good idea would be to have the guy deliver a few times and build some sort of relationship and then surprise him. Lets hope the same guys delivers all the time, otherwise the take-aways will become costly

 there is also an option of people here who potentially own a take away franchise? Just a though. It does though remove the spontaneity from the equation. 

 Also a possibility but as you said its a bit pre-planned and takes a way from the excitement

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Have contemplated. But this is South Africa. Safety has to take precedence. But have given some bar staff and waitron an "eyefull" on a few occasions...

 That is also a consideration. But is does sounds exciting though. Maybe a good idea would be to have the guy deliver a few times and build some sort of relationship and then surprise him. Lets hope the same guys delivers all the time, otherwise the take-aways will become costly