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FoolsInLove
Over 90 days ago
Straight White/Caucasian Male, 39
Straight White/Caucasian Female, 36
0 km · Eastern Cape

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Thanks, really appreciate the offer, I'm sure we'll take you up on that and take advantage of your experience and advice. It's all rather new to us and obviously we're hoping this will be a positive experience for both of us, and to have someone who can give us a little guidance in the beginning can only improve the chances of that.
Thanks for the response, it's nice to get the perspective of someone in Grahamstown who's already been where we are. I'm sure the first time we realise we know someone will still be awkward as hell, but will certainly try and remind ourselves that they're in the same situation. Yeah, our concern is mostly that someone else would find out, which while it wouldn't normally bother us, in a small town, particularly a conservative one, could have ramifications beyond embarrassment. Hopefully though, we'll be able to navigate the risks and still enjoy ourselves smile
*wave* Hi all smile We're rather new around here and thought we'd pop our head in and say hi and also take advantage of the collective knowledge of the site to ask a few questions. We're from a pretty small town and there is a very real possibility that people we try and engage with on the site are people that we know through business or other hobbies which could cause a certain amount of awkwardness. We were just wondering how other people in small towns manage this and any advice people have. Obviously there is the possibility of travelling out of town, but we'd definitely want to meet up for drinks and get to know people before proceeding in any way, and travelling a long distance just for a beer or a cup of coffee just doesn't seem feasible. Thoughts? Advice? :)