We are very new and have had no experiences. Me and my wife both want to try it. Now we are not models and being 39 have life's scares on us. What is the general feeling with swingers, are they looking for perfect people which look like Brad Pitt and Angelina Jolly, or would normal people be excepted. Don't get me wrong, we are not fat or ugly but have the occasional boep grow after a holiday. My wife is very selfconsious and I don't want her first experience be one that will put her back in her shell. Basically what I am asking is what is the expectations from people?
