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Very new and nervous

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We are very new and have had no experiences. Me and my wife both want to try it. Now we are not models and being 39 have life's scares on us. What is the general feeling with swingers, are they looking for perfect people which look like Brad Pitt and Angelina Jolly, or would normal people be excepted. Don't get me wrong, we are not fat or ugly but have the occasional boep grow after a holiday. My wife is very selfconsious and I don't want her first experience be one that will put her back in her shell. Basically what I am asking is what is the expectations from people?
Can i tell you something the Brad Pitt and Angelina Jolly are chatters not swingers and at the end of the day the only thing that count is personality and chemistry.
Welcome to Swing Heaven, The majority people are just people, we are fat, thin, in-between,boepies and no boepies,we have six packs and we have big floppy asses, bald and hairy, We have large genitals and we have small genitals, we have saggy boobs,and we have artificial *styf gestopte tieties* to the really nice natural boobs,we are beautiful and we are scary ugly, we all have fun, no one judges anyone. If anyone judge how you look, then pass them by and tell them to go fly a kite....there are more than enough just normal everyday people here. So happy hunting ,and enjoy yourselves.
Most people are scared of Barbie like people The natural is best, be they fat or thin, as been said the chemistry counts
First of all is welcome to the site. Secondly i dont think you will ever find a Brad or Angelina couple here as we are all normal people here. Yes we also have the holiday stomach or scars over the years. To me I prefer to meet other normal people like myself and you. Then I dont need to feel intimidated and can be myself. That is why there are so many out there that are fake as they pretend to be someone or something else.