@Lekkerspeel37, so sorry you are so far away, I would have loved to introduce this very exciting activity to you

Quote by Lekkerspeel37

This will be a first for us, however a great idea to get into the lifestyle 🤣

I agree totally - I am up-front about my situation, people that don't have the appetite for my situation are welcome to give me a miss. It just removes so much drama, and some people that have very strict no-single-or-playing-alone-male policies have actually connected with me. So much so that I'm meeting a couple for coffee soon that would have generally had nothing to do with me because of people like the ones you mention.

Quote by BikerBrian

One of my favourite things to do, wanking out in the wild

I'm about to go play at my favourite spot again...

Please put me on your list too

Cup and Apple for scale ;-)

Mine

One of my favourite things to do, wanking out in the wild

So much whining will be avoided if people were just honest from the start - If you're bi, say so, if you're gay, don't say you're bi or straight.

If you're married and your wife doesn't know you're playing - for fucks sake, don't create a couples profile, you're not swinging as a couple!

Sad state of affairs, but as long as the site doesn't require id and real world identity it will remain that way. They can clean the user base up, but then they will not be able to claim to be the biggest swinger site in the world. I guess we know what that means...

As a Bi guy I can't tell you how many times I have been propositioned by "straight" guys. Shit happens, man.

Thanks, this is very important - I am aware of one or two items in my pics that may be recognised by folks who have had zoom calls with me. They have bothered me, but not enough to do something about it, until now.

"Sexy" is a mindset - I have been with people with virtually perfect bodies and looks, and I might as well have been banging a mattress, and I've been with "not at all a model" people and had the most energetic, kinky, physical-and-cerebral sexual experiences ever.

I have also had hot, steamy sex with the "pretty" folk and shockingly bad sex with the "ordinary" folk.

People that only go by appearance are probably too shallow to have a good debauch with anyway - and they're probably going to be surprised that Ken and Barbie have the sense sexual adventure of a plastic doll

Quote by ruffnmuff

The anklets are meaningless today. You could end up being slapped silly by some chick who has no idea of its original meaning.

Whahaha!! Thanks for the response. "Getting slapped by some chick" would be par for the course, tho.

To the two really hot ladies who were flirting with the big bearded guy in the queue at the motor vehicle licensing office in Sasolburg this morning, DM me, I wasn't able to engage in the conversation fully with my grown ass son standing next to me, he thinks I'm a good boy...

Quote by Archie_Cage

Is this place still open?

It is, I scouted it out a month or two ago to see what the couple-friendly glory-hole situation was (for another thread on this forum), and it is still open, and has couple-friendly viewing booths, no glory-hole tho

Quote by BlackCum

I have seen a lot of black women with bracelet on the ankle but with no clue at all about swinging lifestyle

There isn't a universal sign, as far as I understand. A black ring on the right hand (ring finger mostly, middle finger never) is also seen as an indicator, but these things should always be seen as hints, not signs.

Unless she's wearing a t-shirt that reads "It's not cheating if hubby watches", of course...

Full disclosure, I don't, but figured an area would be helpful...

Quote by royj01

The clever people don’t state race under their profile. , yet they would say something like “same race only or do not cross racial barriers “.

But, or course, there is a 92% likelihood that you could accurately estimate their "race" based on that statement alone...

Quote by JimmyChoo

Great thread. Personally we are all made in Gods image so race shouldn’t be a factor. A pet hate are profiles that proudly proclaim to be “open minded” but then also claim to “not cross the racial barrier.” The term itself “racial barrier” is such a social constructive. There is no “barrier” or “line” only the one these people create in their minds. As a game I play “guess the race” by looking a pussy & dick pics & 90% of the time I’m wrong. They all look the the same too.

I don't cross the race barrier either, I've only EVER had sex with members of the Human race... To each his own, but I've never really fancied a horse or a goat...

Some guys literally don't have enough haemoglobin to ensure sufficient oxygen supply to the brain once they get a hardon, simple as that...

Quote by compton

Sad, but true. That's why we can't have nice stuff.

Boss, we CAN have nice stuff by not just assuming shit about each other, but still (as a community) call out bad behaviour and establish a respectful, sharing culture

Quote by swingfantasy

Sinsations transformation sounds amazing - do we have anything similar - that's couples friendly ?

I took a detour past Sinsations on my way home from the office on Friday, and I am impressed. Their play area is extensive, and a couple snuck out of the door just after I arrived (I turned my back and pretended to be interested in something on the shelf, you're welcome, random couple).

They have quite a few gloryhole booths and various nooks that could accommodate 3, even 4 amorous individuals.

I felt a bit uncomfortable in the back during load-shedding, as everything is black and there was no light at all except for my cellpone flashlight, else I would have hung around for a bit to see if things got interesting....

Or, send me a R1000 for some pics

Quote by The_Valentines

Is anyone else curious about the 60 50 split 🤔

Looks like the tiniest amount of inherent bias in the polling engine...

Boss, all kinds of stupid exists in our species, it makes sense that those same kinds of stupid will follow us into all our pursuits, main-stream or not....

Hi there LifeStyleWorldWide, welcome to the platform.

Quote by TheSwirlCpl

As much as I enjoy watching her with other men, I am now at the stage where I want to "not watch" - excuse myself from the room so that she can give herself to him completely and enjoy the sex to the max.... that would be such a thrill to me.... knowing she is alone with him (maybe doing things she doesnt do with me) and enjoying herself.

What, if anything, would entice you to stay? Surely experiencing something together is a bonding experience?

Quote by TheSwirlCpl

My Mrs ordered the last guy she fucked to suck me in the middle of the MMF - it was so hot!!!. Now she wants the complete show!

Never wanted to be in CT more than right now...

I will check it out again tomorrow or Friday to see of they at least sorted the lighting. I'll also ask the lady who runs it if we can somehow arrange exclusions on the "no ladies in the open-ish area" rule if we had cause...

I have had a few dogging adventures, worst case you have a good, well deserved wank out in the open, but more often than not you get to play and be played with.