I have the same experience

Quote by xamza

No, bi guys are fully bi, orally bi guys like me asmre orally bi, not into anal with other guys.

Sir, please contemplate the concept of sarcasm and then read my post again....

Quote by fadnad

Hi anyone going to the sexpo jhb this weekend

You guys think it will be fun this year

I am kinda bummed for not being able to go, I was really looking forward to it.

Quote by xamza

Wouldn't it be great if there was separate options for Bi and Orally Bi when setting your sexual preferences? I am orally bi, in other words, I dont mind sucking off guys, but I an not fully bi, so dont do anal with guys (giving & receiving). I do preffer the ladies though.

Just a thought!

Bi guys are bi, "Orraly Bi" guys just say they are? Just a thought...

Does anyone know what the swinger situation is like in Las Vegas? I am going there for a conference in Dec, and would like to explore in the evenings.

Thank you

Quote by Slowvelder69

As a single male I see this a lot, someone views your profile and when you want to view it back you find that you are blocked

This is a regular thing for me too

As a screaming queen chef I used to work with used to say: "Long and thin goes right in, short and thick does the trick"

Bump... Please DM me if you know of someone

I am looking to transition my look from very dad-bod to ripped grandpa, and would love some recommendations for a personal trainer to help me with a programme and regular check ins.

Trainer must be male, for reasons of domestic politics, but if they are bi or straight-passing gay I would not mind.

Also, Southern Gauteng is preferred.

Any public waking happening in the Vaal?

Quote by Stiffy27

My rant is why block a profile then like an arsehole open and check it out you are either interested or not so make up your mind

I know, right - I had a couple that blocked me because I was playing without consent, but every weekend they would unblock me, poke around my media, even dropping a like or two, and block me again

I saw this Gen X age range couple at Fetish Haven on the 13th of June, Afrikaans, husband is tall and ruggedly good looking, and the wife is an elegant, gorgeous blonde who was wearing a red blazer.

If you are on this platform, please DM me.

Quote by nys1

Mag ek nooit so vas slaap nie🙄🙄

Ek dink dis meer oor die lekker wakker word...

Hot as fuck, but consent is key

I've been to one before, you should have seen the girls face when she realised everyone came....

Quote by Katznbunnies

For the people asking why single guys get such a rough time....

I give you exhibit "A"🙄

I see what you did there - Exhibit "A", awesome

Quote by Dazza_81

I’m going to give Fetish havens day play party a go on the 28th. Who has been? Is it a good jol? Or who is also going?

I am toying with the idea - did you go? What was it like?

I was at work the other day and figured out of the over 1000 people in my building, at least one MUST be on this site? I would love to have a naughty connection at work, but the risks of cultivating that connection in terms of HR exposure if you misjudge the situation.... I don't have appetite for that...

Quote by jayjay15x

Where?

Bro, you are quite the archaeologist - this thread dates back to 2021...

But to echo your question:

"Where?"

Apparently the viewing lounge has been cleaned, and there are people there sometimes, but I have yet to actually run into someone there

Bro, my friend is keen, drop me a or so I can put you in contact

Quote by F1Fan

Is there any place offering naked sushi? As in the Mrs and I would like to eat sushi off a naked girl and she would then like to play with her.

Sir, I have a connection that specialises in making things like this come to pass - I am dropping you my t/gram deets

Quote by NordicBull

Wife sharing for Newbies

Having been in the lifestyle now for many years and being the bull/play mate for cuckold/stag&vixen/MFM couples now for about eight years and being lucky enough to successfully introduce many South African couples into wife sharing, I get many questions from curious newbie couples. There’s a couple pieces of advice I’d like to give.

The first is good communication between the couple. Open and honest talks not just in sexual situations but over coffee with your clothes on. Everything sounds sexy and hot in bed but the true realities need to be understood. It’s no small deal to have another man, especially if the idea is for him to be bigger and better than hubby in bed. Quality bulls are very confident and charismatic with women and that is a huge turn on for most wives that haven’t had that kind of attention from strange men since getting married. The idea of having sex with such men can be a huge aphrodisiac. How I see it is the bulls not just trying to get into her panties but also her and your head. The same open and honest communication should also be held between any potential candidates. Ask questions, share interest, disclose fears and limits. On that note, some things can and should be negotiated. But never the hard limits for the wife, the stag/cuck or the bull.

Ignore bulls until you and your wife have agreed on the ground rules that work for you. Never let some bull push you into something you are not comfortable with; kick that guy out and seek out someone who is aligned to your relationship. Bulls can be replaced, but if you let some jackass wreck your relationship then you have a lot of repair to do.

Secondly, patience, patience and more patience. It’s easy to find a willing hard dick but a heck lot harder to find a true bull. A man that gets and understands the dynamic. He should truly understand that what’s done is not just for his or the wife’s pleasure but all three of you. Sometimes that means just allowing the husband to witness his wife being taken. Sometimes it’s more involved, verbal communication and sometimes even physical interaction. These are some of the things that need to be discussed prior to anything happening in the moment. At the end of a good encounter everyone should walk away satisfied feeling they got their needs met.

Just go for bulls that have at least 3-4 vouches from SH couples. Not vouches from singles, as it is a very different thing to play with couples. If not enough vouches from couples, you might end up with a person who can't get hard or cums too quickly. This is unfortunately very common so be diligent, you want the first experiences to be great. Even check with the couples who played with and get a reference from them via a message.

Third, look out for exploiters. There are a lot of guys who assume that cuckold couples are just an easy source of pussy. They may put on a surface effort of understanding the cuckold dynamic, but what they are really after is to shove the husband aside and fuck the wife just to get some pussy. So dig in, ask your prospective bull what they enjoy about cuckolding a couple, besides getting some pussy.

It is NEVER a good idea to have some bull try to seduce your wife as a way to get her interested in cuckolding. Go talk to her about your feelings and desires. If you cannot be honest enough to just talk about it, you will not survive the real thing.

Lastly, cuckolding (or any kind of open relationship) is an amplifier for what is already happening in your relationship. If your relationship is strong, it will get stronger. If your relationship has problems, the problems will get worse. So, never try wife sharing to try to fix your problems, go fix your problems and then come back.

Happy wife sharing and don't hesitate to reach out if you want to discuss further.

Cheers, Nordicbull

Amen, brother!

Quote by Boeslaboes

Hello there. Very new to this but hoping to meet some wonderful girls/ guys and couples.

Stay in Roodepoort area so might be in contact with you if we like whatb we see.

Looking for friends first and then we will see.

Welcome to the platform, hope you have an awesome time

Quote by haveusbc

im not sure why some of you are concerned that you are blocked..why waste energy on somebody that clearly does not want to inter act with you...i dont give it a 2nd thought

i think we some times forget that we are all from different walks of life...so more wealthy....some more educated ....some more polite ..the list goes on...and i think we all make the mistake from time to time that we are all on the same social level....we are not

Return the favour - someone block you, you block them straight back and be done with them.

For those attending on Friday, look out for a t-shirt saying "Never fear, the beard is here". You are welcome to come up to me and introduce yourself. I will be there from 12 - 3, give or take

I will be going on Friday

Quote by Sensitive

My profile def says bisexual, but have had many contacts from straight couples where hubby only wants to play alone, after close to 18 years in the "lifestyle" have only met one truly bi couple. think it's easier to find a Unicorn.

Truth

Quote by L24Fun

Here for fun! Not squash or hide n seek!

Wow, that's pretty harsh!