So a thought came to my mind as I was viewing a profile's media and liking every second pic (Who amazing pics they were but not the point) I thought to myself if the couple logs in they will see this desperate man liking all their pics.
So my question to all is: What do single guys do that really irritates you and makes you say I will not speak to this man? I know the obvious one is the messages saying "Wanna fuck?" but what else.
Lees eers die hele profiel goed deur. Sorg dat jou eie profiel eerlik en volledig is met genoeg fotos om die belangstelling te prik. Ek is bi en as ons 'n bi man soek en ek kry 'n boodskap "Hi" en jou profiel wys straight (al is jy gemaklik met bi), gaan ek net verby. As jy kontak maak, bly weg van one-liners. Sê wie jy is, wat jy doen, hoe jy kan aansluit by die couple en hoe jy beplan om moeite te doen om hulle belangstelling te prikkel.
Good, solid advice there, thanks for contributing. I find that single guys are often their own worst enemy on the platform - and that results in everyone being tarred with the same brush, which is unhelpful.
I agree that a well constructed message is paramount, but I would add - make sure you target your efforts at those that are at least not exclusionary towards singles. It is hard to tell sometimes, but you can get some pretty venomous responses if you get it wrong.
Don’t come in aggressive and within 10 messages demand to see our tits. Chances are we would share if you took the time and effort to chat us up or woo (if you are old enough to know what that is). If our profile says we are NOT interested in sharing pics, respect that. Make the time to convince us to change our minds maybe 😏 and if not RESPECT it. 😉
Be gentleman, we for the most part like being treated like the queens we are (even if it is only in our minds)😊
Read our profile well and chat accordingly.
