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4pleasure73
Over 90 days ago
Bi-curious White/Caucasian Female, 45
Straight White/Caucasian Male, 50
0 km · Gauteng
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Life gives you plenty of time to do whatever you want to do if you stay in the present moment. - Deepak Chopra
Success comes when people act together, failure tends to happen alone. - Deepak Chopra
Every time you are tempted to react in the same old way, ask if you want to be a prisoner of the past or a pioneer of the future. - Deepak Chopra
Knowing your own darkness is the best method for dealing with the darknesses of other people - Carl Jung
Evrything that irritates us about others can lead us to a greater understanding of ourselves. - Carl Jung
One does not become enlightened by imagining figures of light, but by making the darkness concious. - Carl Jung
We are what we repeatedly do, excellence, therfore is not a act but a habit - Aristotle
Great spirits have always encountered violent opppsition from mediocre minds - Albert Einstein
You must be the change you want to see in the world - Mahatma Gandhi
Vision without action as a daydream. Action without vision is a nightmare - Chinese proverb
Motivation is a fire from within. If someone else tries to light that fire under you, chances are it will burn very briefly -Stephen R Covey
Success is the ability to go from failure to failure without losing your enthusiasm - Sir Winston Churchill
Life is 10% what happens to us and 90% how we react to it -Dennis P Kimbro
This is merely a "scenario" that has got us thinking and made us wonder how fair and judgemental the world has really become.
Say you were married in a loving, caring relationship without any issues in the bedroom, the ideal marriage, wouldn't you agree? Then one day out of the blue either partner gets up to go to work or wherever after a wonderful night of passionate love making with their spouse, and WHAM they are involved in a car accident and paralysed for life, it wasn't their fault the other drive jumped a stop street, or say is it the other drivers fault their tyre burst, whatever may have led to the accident, anyhow, the loving caring partner who was at home is now left in the relationship to care for their paralysed spouse, wouldn't anyone of us do that for our loved ones or expect it? However, the one who has to care for their spouse are they to completely switch off towards being human and having sexual needs and desires? Are they to be satisfied sexually based on what their spouse have to offer? Should they turn to prostitutes and perhaps get some dreaded disease which would in anyway prevent them from caring for their disabled spouse should they themselves become ill? Should they leave their partners and get divorced seen that technically they would be cheating?
Makes one wonder though, is it really that safe to step out of your front door in the mornings? Because low and behold whatever may be waiting around the corner waiting to happen could eventually brand you as a cheater, do we as humans really have control of what may or may not happen in the next five minutes?
Perhaps it would help if people actually take the time to find out what is really going on in others lives before attempting to judge others, do we really know what may or may not be the circumstances?
We tend to aggree with Thumper, never ASSUME, all you are really doing is making an ASS of U and ME.
ASS + U + ME = ASSUME
A man suspected his wife was seeing another man, so he hired the famous Chinese detective, Chen Lee, to watch and report any activities while he was gone. A few days later, he received this report:
Most honorable sir,
You leave house.
I watch house.
He come to house. I watch.
He and she leave house. I follow.
He and she go in hotel. I climb tree.
I look in window.
He kiss she. She kiss he.
He strip she. She strip he.
He play with she. She play with he.
I play with me. I fall off tree.
I not see.
No fee, Chen Lee.
That's it for now, have a great weekend everyone.
Two deaf people get married. During the first week of marriage, they find that they are unable to communicate in the bedroom when they turn off the lights because they can't see each other using sign language. After several nights of fumbling around and misunderstandings, the wife decides to find a solution.
"Honey," she signs, "Why don't we agree on some simple signals? For instance, at night, if you want to have sex with me, reach over and squeeze my left breast one time. If you don't want to have sex, reach over and squeeze my right breast one time."
The husband thinks this is a great idea and signs back to his wife, "Great idea. Now if you want to have sex with me, reach over and pull on my penis one time. If you don't want to have sex, reach over and pull on my penis 50 times."
10% of the women had sex within the first hour of their first date.
20% of the men had sex in a non-traditional place.
36% of the women favour nudity.
45% of the women prefer dark men with blue eyes.
46% of the women experienced anal sex.
70% of the women prefer sex in the morning.
80% of the men have never experienced homosexual relations.
90% of the women would like to have sex in the forest.
99% of the women have never experienced sex in the office.
Conclusion:
Statistically speaking, you have a better chance of having anal sex in the morning with a strange woman in the forest than to have sex in the office at the end of the day.
Moral:
Do not stay late in the office. Nothing good will ever come of it!
A woman was cleaning her husbands dresser drawers when she found 3 golf balls and a box with R2000 in it. She waited for him to come home from the golf course to ask him why these things were hidden in his dresser drawer.
The husband said I'm sorry I hid this from you but the truth is every time I cheated on you over the last 30 years I put a golf ball in the drawer.
The wife was very upset at first but after thinking about it said "I guess 3 times in 30 years is really not that bad! Oh by the way what is the R2000 in the drawer.
The husband replied" Well every time I got to a dozen balls I sold them.
Chinese over the phone to boss "me sick me not come work today"
Boss replies "it's ok, hope you feel better soon, when I don't feel well I go home and make love to my wife"
A while later the phone rings once again.
Chinese to boss "you were right, me feel a whole lot better, you got nice house boss"
After taking a look at plenty pic's on the site, and we must say there are some amazing pic's, we were just curious and wondering why would some guys be using cock rings? Is it to maintain a erection? Is it not dangerous after some time being on? Take it, a erection is merely the flow of blood into the penis after a male has been aroused, sure the cock ring delays the back flow of blood to ones body, however our concern is if used for too long a period in one play session, could it not create a blood clot that could lead to a heart attack? What is your experience with such things and what would you suggest to be a safe amount of time to use one? Couldn't one also be created from a steady piece of string with a slip knot in it? Are there really any alternatives to using such a device?
Society in a whole is so judgemental at times, between consenting adults and as long as its merely for the pleasure, why not, tend to agree with the previous person who said its better than divorce, its not to say a person has issues in your relationship and therefore turn to swinging, some of us see it as exciting and a opportunity to just be ourselves and find ultimate pleasure, way we see it is we keep our intentions clear and from a place of love and respect and that is all that will ever come our way. Analise and know your intentions whether they from a good or bad place and that will yield results either way.
