I have heard whispered rumours that there are in fact clubs and parties in the Eastern Cape area...
I'm not sure whether this is simply a drug/alcohol induced haze of hallucinations... of course considering the rain fall lately it could just be echos of the pleas of the desperate drowning few...
But tell me truly - are there any? really?
If there are - how do we find them?
LeeEC
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Clubs and parties in EC
We were wondering the same thing.
Forum Virgin
At least you have heard some whispered rumors. We would love them also to be true.
...lets get it together.
Anyone have venue?
Anyone got a music system?
A catering company?
lets get it on guys!
I've been planning for years to build a venue on our property for hiring out, abms recently w came up with a design to make it as versatile as possible, so that it can be used for those kinds of parties too!
Now if only I had the cash to build it 
Forum Virgin
Everyone knows where there is a rumour there is fact and intent to make it a reality. As a Johannesburg based swinger I have had my best experiences here in the Eastern Cape. Now that I have decided to move where the action is so to speak, I find that the locals prefer 'Foreign Friends With Benefits'
Whilst I am a single male who has been able to use his personality as a form of contraception, I can attest to the fact that there are in fact like-minded folk who have parties in the Eastern Cape area.
So we either need to commercialise it as is the case with Cape Town, Durban, and Johannesburg or be like Pretoria and become a Private Party Paradise.
Personally I think Pretoria is SA's best example of the local community, not unlike us in Eastern Cape, who have a wonderfully active swinging community. Outwardly like us here in the Eastern Cape no one is a swinger. What Pretoria does have is a few folk who take charge and orgy-nise play time. They also have more than a few nutters, paedophiles and folk that take loving pets a tad too literally.
I am going to use a Rugby analogy here, we require a coach to get us here in the Eastern Cape to Touch, Pause & Engage. The question is who will get in Touch, Pause to plan a party, so we can Engage. Fortunately the best man for the position as our swing coach is a woman and as we know in swinging circles what the woman say goes.
So to the Boadicea who steps up to the plate, remember Port Elizabeth is really the Mother city, it takes 9 months to for anything to happen and the Eastern Cape is famous for Elephants who have a 2 year gestation period. The territory is full of lip service and like a lover who is inept at oral, we know the lips move, but nothing happens.
So LeeEC your mission should you accept it is to Touch, Pause & Engage.
Yes sir I see your point, but first off, I don't live in the city, and therefore have little knowledge regarding whats on offer in terms of venues etc.
Secondly, while having awesome advice and great insight into the perils and pitfalls of relational doings of all varieties, I am for all intents and purposes quite inexperienced regarding this lifestyle and am really just getting my toes wet, so to speak.
This idea of being some eastern cape party queen, while appealing in a rather titilating and delightful manner...
Well, I think that setting up and managing some sort of club.......well my friend that is awful lot of trouble and expense to go through just to have my own first party experience...
Forum Virgin
Hello Lee
I have also over the last few years tried to get PE and EC folk together to organise a party.
But most people in EC are big mouth and no show. Had a venue organised etc and then people did not want to pay.
So we all just hope for something to happen. Ive also once had a full permanent versatile venue planned with business plan and all but due to lack of intrest filed it.
Inbox me and we can try and discuss a plan to get going again.
Have fun.
L
I have also over the last few years tried to get PE and EC folk together to organise a party.
But most people in EC are big mouth and no show. Had a venue organised etc and then people did not want to pay.
So we all just hope for something to happen. Ive also once had a full permanent versatile venue planned with business plan and all but due to lack of intrest filed it.
Inbox me and we can try and discuss a plan to get going again.
Have fun.
L
Quote by MattLeeEC
I have heard whispered rumours that there are in fact clubs and parties in the Eastern Cape area...
I'm not sure whether this is simply a drug/alcohol induced haze of hallucinations... of course considering the rain fall lately it could just be echos of the pleas of the desperate drowning few...
But tell me truly - are there any? really?
If there are - how do we find them?
LeeEC
