The colour line

8 Dec 2013

Quote by georgeous
To be honest and this is not defending the ones that clearly cannot read but in some cases I have eeen myself where I look at the adverts where a couple is looking for a single male to play with his wife. Then when you look at their profile it clearly states no single males! So what do you do now?
I understand and do read every profile when I want to respond to an advert but shouldn't they either change their advert or update their profile?

Just a thought: maybe they generally do not look for nor play with single guys, however, at the time of placing/adding their advert they felt like a change.....it could have been a "once-off".....maybe?

8 Dec 2013

Quote by NawtyCat
To be honest and this is not defending the ones that clearly cannot read but in some cases I have eeen myself where I look at the adverts where a couple is looking for a single male to play with his wife. Then when you look at their profile it clearly states no single males! So what do you do now?
I understand and do read every profile when I want to respond to an advert but shouldn't they either change their advert or update their profile?

Just a thought: maybe they generally do not look for nor play with single guys, however, at the time of placing/adding their advert they felt like a change.....it could have been a "once-off".....maybe?
Nawtycat, that is a fair comment, only thing is those people must just be sure not to get upset when single guy's do contact them.

9 Dec 2013

Quote by SDMR
To be honest and this is not defending the ones that clearly cannot read but in some cases I have eeen myself where I look at the adverts where a couple is looking for a single male to play with his wife. Then when you look at their profile it clearly states no single males! So what do you do now?
I understand and do read every profile when I want to respond to an advert but shouldn't they either change their advert or update their profile?

Just a thought: maybe they generally do not look for nor play with single guys, however, at the time of placing/adding their advert they felt like a change.....it could have been a "once-off".....maybe?
Nawtycat, that is a fair comment, only thing is those people must just be sure not to get upset when single guy's do contact them.
It could be that they do want a change but what SDMR has said is right. If you put an advert like that in don't get upset and curse the people that are replying. I have replied to an ad and then you get this rude message in capitals saying, "CANT YOU READ?!?!.NO SINGLE MALES".

9 Dec 2013

I agree completely with the fact that the single guys who respond should be treated with kind words of thanks and manners!

9 Dec 2013

Is that what people like to hear in a mail massage: Receiving a lot of them and people asked why people get angry and rude. Hallo I'm black strong man with an large huge cock, I would like to join u, I'm available for u, I hope to hear from u

10 Dec 2013

I also wondered what makes us so different to the whites. I am an Indian male with a fair size Johnson and I've read many of the profiles..."we do not cross the colour barrier". Frankly, bud who gives a damn if they don't. This may sound irrelevant, but truth be told. 10 years ago, I would of never given an African women a second look, not because i disliked them, but of what people presumed. 10 years later, when I check out porn on my iphone, it's mainly of ebony women. My point being, is that people have been stereotypical for generations. Thats just life...face it. What amuses me is that on my profile I have pics of my sexy wife. Lots of white men have mailed me and remarked...FUCK SHE'S SEXY, CAN I FUCK HER or WOW YOU HAVE A SEXY WIFE. CAN I PLAY. Simply put, they would like to fuck Indian women, but not have same room sex with an Indian couple. As many profiles state that women call the shots, on my profile, I do... Sorry guys, if we can't fuck ur wives, you surly not gonna fuck ours.

10 Dec 2013

What was this a fantasise or something spring the mind. The white man you talk about that mail you, did you have a look at there profiles and they stated that they not cross the colour line, no you did not and now you jump the ban wagon said all white people are racist. Please my friend this is new South Africa nothing more nothing less don't make assumptions only to be one of them.

10 Dec 2013

Quote by Adonis
This profile description and colour line getting boring, looking for every excuse under the sun, please get real

Adonis I have to agree with you on this colour know how long I am waithing for the TV probram Mythbusters to air their program on "Once you go Black, You never go back"

26 Dec 2013

Quote by Andre3000
This profile description and colour line getting boring, looking for every excuse under the sun, please get real

Adonis I have to agree with you on this colour know how long I am waithing for the TV probram Mythbusters to air their program on "Once you go Black, You never go back"
Ja ja ja its getting 'old' but its still a huge problem. Where's the respect for one another? Its not necessary to put that line in your profile. Its a smack in the face for other people. Its the 'new' SA. Let us go into a new year respecting others like we feel we must be respected. Ja and even the single guys too (they are human too ). Respect is earned not forced onto someone. Mwah

27 Dec 2013

Hell I had hope that this colour thing been buried for once and for all. But to my surprise it jump up again this morning. Please people as long as you waist your time on something bother you it would not stop bothering you. Its what you made of it, We exept our shortfalls in life and put it to rest, and yes did not bother us anymore. My plea to every one on SH you are born with shortfalls exept it and please don't make your problem everyone else's problem

27 Dec 2013

The problem with telling people that their problems are not important, or no longer deserve discussion, is that you are invalidating their experiences. Fact: some people are still racists, and the way that they approach profiles of other races, is horrible. Their is often a lack of respect. The rest of us, are decent people, and race is not an issue to us, but if we tell our friends to stop talking about their experiences, than we are saying that their problems are silly/not important. Just my 2c.

27 Dec 2013

There are government body's handling cases off racism. SH can I assure you can do nothing to stop it, he ban the profile and the person open a next profile. All we as members can do is to give all the evidence in a report, and report the profile. We are colour blind and like to see that, as members in SH, and spare the forums from it