Its so interesting to read experiences and frustrasions from both singles and couples. I placed a add for a guy or bi girl to joyn me and my girlfriend. 99% of single guys expect to show up undress and fuck her. One guy even said he's not into courting or charming a woman, he's here to fuck. Thus I can now relate to the frustrations of couples. We sometimes don't feel like sex, just fooling around kissing licking sucking, and sometimes would love to have a third party to join. I relate to a couple commenting " its difficult getting a single decent guy " we share your frustration.
The points of view expressed here should be common sense to most so I understand how frustrating it must be for couples looking for singles. It is quite frightening how the anonymity of the internet changes the character of people. I have not been here very long but have picked up the suspicions of members when they see I am single, most are very cautious and I understand why. Anyway - this was just a note to thank you all for pointers and advice for newcomers such as myself.
I agree that single males are not on top of the food chain here and that couples and ladies have the right to lay down the rules and laws. But please hear us out, if every profile says no single males, where should we go? I though that this site caters for everybody. Agreed that there are a few bad apples and they should be dealt with. There should be some sort of report card that other couples and ladies can go back to once some people have met said single male and can give future possible prospects more information and peace of mind before meeting a single.. frustrated male.
Thank you
Mike
Now having read what is said on the subject I just realised that me and the wife only meet married men, compounding the problem
I think it is because single guys can become a nuisense