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Quote by EroticLiving
If you are interesting, 'respectful', understand you're not there to replace hubby, can string a couple of sentences together in reasonable fashion and most importantly can read, you could become sought-after.

Hear hear - 3000 points to you!! lol :lol:
Its so interesting to read experiences and frustrasions from both singles and couples. I placed a add for a guy or bi girl to joyn me and my girlfriend. 99% of single guys expect to show up undress and fuck her. One guy even said he's not into courting or charming a woman, he's here to fuck. Thus I can now relate to the frustrations of couples. We sometimes don't feel like sex, just fooling around kissing licking sucking, and sometimes would love to have a third party to join. I relate to a couple commenting " its difficult getting a single decent guy " we share your frustration.
Quote by chrisace
We sometimes don't feel like sex, just fooling around kissing licking sucking, and sometimes would love to have a third party to join. I relate to a couple commenting " its difficult getting a single decent guy " we share your frustration.

Hear hear. I think it's got a lot to do with maturity. It's the nature of the beast I think.
The points of view expressed here should be common sense to most so I understand how frustrating it must be for couples looking for singles. It is quite frightening how the anonymity of the internet changes the character of people. I have not been here very long but have picked up the suspicions of members when they see I am single, most are very cautious and I understand why. Anyway - this was just a note to thank you all for pointers and advice for newcomers such as myself.
Quote by seven07fs
The points of view expressed here should be common sense to most so I understand how frustrating it must be for couples looking for singles. It is quite frightening how the anonymity of the internet changes the character of people. I have not been here very long but have picked up the suspicions of members when they see I am single, most are very cautious and I understand why. Anyway - this was just a note to thank you all for pointers and advice for newcomers such as myself.

Just another thought @seven07fs . . . . perhaps it's the 'real world' that changes the character of some people
I agree that single males are not on top of the food chain here and that couples and ladies have the right to lay down the rules and laws. But please hear us out, if every profile says no single males, where should we go? I though that this site caters for everybody. Agreed that there are a few bad apples and they should be dealt with. There should be some sort of report card that other couples and ladies can go back to once some people have met said single male and can give future possible prospects more information and peace of mind before meeting a single.. frustrated male. Thank you Mike
Quote by mikespike09
I agree that single males are not on top of the food chain here and that couples and ladies have the right to lay down the rules and laws. But please hear us out, if every profile says no single males, where should we go? I though that this site caters for everybody. Agreed that there are a few bad apples and they should be dealt with. There should be some sort of report card that other couples and ladies can go back to once some people have met said single male and can give future possible prospects more information and peace of mind before meeting a single.. frustrated male.
Thank you
Mike

You could just try using the search to narrow down who has straight male selected on their preferences, for example;
Couples > Seeking Straight Male > Active within the last 30 days;
https://www.swingingheaven.za.com/profiles/filter/active/30/latitude/-26.11938/location/1739%2C+Krugersdorp%2C+West+Rand%2C+Gauteng%2C+South+Africa/longitude/27.7490656/match/any/persons/2/region/All/seek/8
Females > Seeking Straight Male > Active within the last 30 days;
https://www.swingingheaven.za.com/profiles/filter/active/30/gender/0/latitude/-26.11938/location/1739%2C+Krugersdorp%2C+West+Rand%2C+Gauteng%2C+South+Africa/longitude/27.7490656/match/any/persons/1/region/All/seek/8
Now having read what is said on the subject I just realised that me and the wife only meet married men, compounding the problem I think it is because single guys can become a nuisense

I've never been to a party, always wanted to, although I feel IL be the youngest at one, that's just an assumption.... I'm still new to this, nevertheless Helpful info, thanks

At 27 you won't be the youngest. At poizon the limit is 21 and we do get people that young attending. Swingers have a lot in common, age is not one of those things.

Age is but a number in a green book....okey these days on a piece of plastic as well!

Well said Tanners

This certainly is very true.  No one should be here because they're desparate. This is a  life of enjoyment and pleasure for all involved.  I love this post.

Quote by Pussinboots1
Very insightful, hope single gents will read this.

 
Ive read this carefully and is 100% for it .... 

Many single men do not read this post, even though they should. 

Many men can't read, .... or write, as in string together a coherent sentence, in fact many of them struggle with tying their shoelaces .....guess that's why they're "SINGLE"! .....Now, before all of them trace my location and hunt me down, in their defence: Growing up here in our "land of plenty", the focus for developing males has always been cars, bikes, guns, rugby, fishing etc, and getting a blowjob from the highschool slut, so: no wonder that interpersonal skills and the comprehension of the intricate and (from a male point of view) illogical female psyche never had a chance in captivating the mind of the average male, and therefore we reap the deleterious benefits of our heritage today .........

Yip wolfman, but fortunately your description applies to only around 95% of males, and there are some gents around who can at least tie their laces!... ;-)

So whip my ass and whack my peepee for generalizing .........

Nah, I'm not the kind who would do something like that.... ;-)  Rather, I'm probably trying to blow my own trumpet! :-)

Wanna see my wife fucked by another man. Krugersdorp area 😈