SH Relationships

I was just wondering how many couples met on this site.... I know of about 5 couples that met on this site as singles and have started dating. 

Im sure there are probably more couples that ended up as singles on the site!

Nope not me.......

Have also met a few people who have met on this site.  So it does happen.    We one of those couples.  We met in the Pool and took it from there.  Have been together 4 years now and happily married.  So yes we one of the success stories.  

As for couples ending up single on this site, it happens a lot.  But I don't think it's indicative of the site being the influence but rather personal issues they were trying to resolve.   

Not me 

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The ratio is the same about 4:1 ...

That is people who try the life and then separate and people who come together in the life and the separate. 

You would think people who already have exposure would be more of a success story... right ? 

Well no .... sadly and the big killer is jealousy and it's not the girls it's the boys.  Jip boys gets jealous because us girls have more fun. And the plucks everything up. It's like on a preschool playground.... he wants to play with the others toys , until some other kid makes his toy look more fun . 

well said @sexysam69 , love the toyground comparison, have been there 

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The ratio is the same about 4:1 ...
That is people who try the life and then separate and people who come together in the life and the separate. 
You would think people who already have exposure would be more of a success story... right ? 
Well no .... sadly and the big killer is jealousy and it's not the girls it's the boys.  Jip boys gets jealous because us girls have more fun. And the plucks everything up. It's like on a preschool playground.... he wants to play with the others toys , until some other kid makes his toy look more fun . 

I have seen many fights/arguments over the years. I've seen people get jealous. I've seen people cry. Ive seen people storm off. I've seen people get aggressive.

What I haven't seen is; any of the above done by a woman! 100% of the time the issue is always from the male.

I definitely agree that a lot of woman are "Forced" into the lifestyle due to their husbands wanting to shag other woman. The wife just goes along to try keep her husband happy and relationship from ending.

SPOILER ALERT

If you join this lifestyle to save your relationship, The Success you will have is Twice as effective as having a baby to save a relationship.. IT WON'T LAST!

I'm not Judging anyone's relationship or trying to change people's views to mine. I don't mind if my wife plays with a single guy or if she plays with the male and I don't play with the female couple. That's because I get turned on and sexual pleasure from seeing my wife get pleasured.

Having said that, I think it would be a bit unfair if only the husband was allowed to sleep with someone but the wife was not allowed,  due to the husband's jealousy

The lifestyle is supposed to be all about honesty, acceptance and openness of sexual experiences.

The philosophy of the lifestyle is freedom in sex.

In swinging there isn’t supposed to be any cheating because you should have already discussed, agreed and encouraged each other to have sex with others—either with their consent or, more often, with their assistance!

It seems counter-intuitive that having sex with others can make a relationship stronger, but it is often the case.  The openness, the acceptance, the willingness to let go, the trust associated with your permission can all lead to a partner who is more appreciative and loving.  Of course, a very strong, stable and solid relationship is a prerequisite. 

I also read The divorce rate of swingers is only 2%
  

I don't really know the stats , I usually pull figures out my ass and post it as truth.... who ever checks it anyway. 

But 2% divorce rate for swingers makes sense . And I'd bet those divorces had nothing to do with sex. 

But I would gather that we then define swingers as actual swingers . Like Poohc and a hand full of others . 

I'd say 60% to 70% of the couple's we met over the years didn't make it .  And it's very true , if you have problems before you try this you'll have more after you try this .

Now is that 60% - 70% figure out of your ass or genuine figures. lol

I am still happy of the fact that i have seen more couples meet on this site then I have seen couples break up.

I wouldn't know what the statistics are but nor does anybody.

They also say that 9 out of 10 men Masturbate... So obviously the 10th guy is the one counting! 

Fact for the ladies: Anal Sex helps cure back ache 97% of the time and can add 8 years onto your life and forget that a guys Sperm is 94% more effective to help you lose weight then going to the gym!

yes the numbers come out my sexy ass lol. I didn't sit and count . But seriously pretenders don't make it in the life , I'm sure you can agree. 

As for the cum stats ..... thanks for sharing a delicious alternative to torture.  Cum on girls start slurping those kilos away 

All I know is that 98% of stats are false!