Does adding numerous pics of yourselves make you legitimate or experienced players ? My guess would be rather add pics of your play sessions which would give a viewer hope of one's legitimacy.
You guy's thoughts on this
I would never say that someone who post pics of themselves, is wrong.... it is only to tease or entice others, I am sure.
As for posting play session photos , most are also just to tease, but sure, it could indicate that you are willing to play for real, depending if the people in YOUR photo`s agreed to be shown to others.I would think it is *OTHER* partners shown in your play sessions and not only you and your hubby.
BUT to really KNOW that someone is someone sincere and willing to meet up and play, is to vouch for them under your profile and on their profile. Then again you do also get people who does not like to let others know whom they play with.
My thoughts;
Being a "single" male profile I upload pics of myself only as when I play with a couple I wont suggest taking pics as I feel it is not my place to ask. Should they want to take pics I wont have a problem with it and I will ask them to share them with me.
Only then with their permission will I think of uploading them.
I don't think photos are a reflection of you being a genuine swinger or not. I know a few couples that play often but they don't take ANY photos. (It's just not their thing)
I suppose it might cause a problem especially if you are posting pictures of other people without their consent. Not everybody wants to show their naked pictures. (FEEL FREE TO POST MY PICTURES ANYWHERE)
We have had so many pictures of play sessions removed due to the other persons being visible (Even though we have their consent) . I've tried blurring out the faces but it loses the whole point of the picture ( It's hard to block out a face if the picture is of me getting a blowjob). I understand why SH has to do it, and I'm cool with it.
What we do is, post Our play sessions on Twitter or Xhamster/Pornhub.
Having No picture is the worst thing for you profile. You are immediately skipped by so many people. Just take a picture of your Leg or Arm whatever.
The reason for my post is I have seen some couples and singles posting pics of themselves for ages but none of their play sessions which created this thought or are they still in fantasy stage...I also agree some might not be comfortable with posting due to reasons but at least in a private folder "maybe".
Agreed a vouch works well but some we doubt as it could be schemed...
NB; this post is only out of curiosity
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The reason for my post is I have seen some couples and singles posting pics of themselves for ages but none of their play sessions which created this thought or are they still in fantasy stage...I also agree some might not be comfortable with posting due to reasons but at least in a private folder "maybe".
Agreed a vouch works well but some we doubt as it could be schemed...
NB; this post is only out of curiosity
But have you seen how many vouches are not true vouches but rather requests?
I think I only have BDSM pics left in my *play* session albums..... NOW I know most will run for their lives should I ever decide to post these...and YES, I do have consent to post them, those I do not have consent for, I do not post ever...I do not know about you guys...but once I started to really enjoy MY play session, all thoughts of any pic taking flies/d out the door!!! Thus the best pics are NEVER taken!!!
I am not so sure how vouches work these days. In my active time before, I rejoined last year(thus I lost all my vouches when I left) we all had to agree on vouches before vouching and the people who you vouched for or who vouched for you could check and disagree and the mods removed that vouch if needed.
Man, I do have to APOLOGIZE... I give Alzheimer the blame..... Anyway when I spoke about vouching...I meant verified or verifying...Vouching I KNOW can be embezzled!!!! As it is private between to couples or people....but verifying is NOT. it is where people really has to have met you to verify that you are the *real* deal!!!!
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Man, I do have to APOLOGIZE... I give Alzheimer the blame..... Anyway when I spoke about vouching...I meant verified or verifying...Vouching I KNOW can be embezzled!!!! As it is private between to couples or people....but verifying is NOT. it is where people really has to have met you to verify that you are the *real* deal!!!!
Old age, a disease we all get.... ;-)