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Quote by Voyer1105
The safest way is to play with well known friends
Currantly my wife has 2 lovers, one of about 13 years and the other 6 years
We all know each others history and trust each other
A new lover gets explored in all senses
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The NSA brigade will always be more at risk. Couples are generally a safer bet than singles (There are countless exceptions to this generalization
). Asking for an std screening is a lot less painful than an STD. Go to a doctor that you don't know. HE doesn't require any special skill set to take blood & urine samples and a swab of the inside of the penis or cervix and anus if you play back there
. It would probably be better for women to have the screening done by a gynae. There are unfortunately no reliable tests for the Herpes virus during dormancy. Luckily this infection is only transmittable during the active phase.
Basically, if it doesn't look or smell right, don't put it in your mouth (or anywhere else)
HIV tests should be mandatory before any real fun begins. The results should be VERY recent - the is no such thing as too recent! Go for the Eliza test - Its much more accurate than the rapid. No test is 100% accurate. If someone was infected due to unprotected intercourse, they may not test positive until 3 months later. This means that if you want to swing with them a month after they were infected, their results may still be negative!! That can be dangerous.
Wrt oral, the risk is very low. However, this increases with gingivitis and most mouth sores.
Lee is right, you won't always know if the gingivitis you have is severe enough to increase your risk. Be safe. Be smart.
All so true
Because I have a sperm fetish we go bareback eventually
To begin with he is thoroughly interogated and his status established and then a condom is used until we know him and his habits
Once we are happy with him it is stick it in and fill her up
We have been doing this for 25 years and by now we know how to judge a bloke and his habits, married men are best most of the time but one was dropped off our list because we found out he goes to strip shows, which I think can lead to risky actions
My hubby and i have been married for 13 years. I have given him many blowjobs but have been swallowing only for the past year. Now i cant get enough. Back to the point, my hubby has a rule: to give a lady an orgasm everyway he can before he cums. May it be his mouth, his fingers, his penis or a toy (such as vibraters, beads, ect.) So we love oral sex, our favourite is 69. I have read somewhere that you cant get STD's orally. So what's the problem?
LeeandDee please go read up on STD`S there is a multitude of STD`s you can get via your mouth.
or just go read a little higher up on this same forum where I tell you about a few..
Most people only worry about HIV....there is plenty more to worry about.
But if you only have oral sex with your hubby/and vice versa, I am sure you you will not contract any one else`s STD`s , And the both of you are surely safe.
