Labels.

I always smile and just shake my head when profiles complaining that  other profiles do not adhere to the *LABEL* they apply to themselves contacting them..like a male who defines himself as Bi-Sexual, contact them for a threesome....sometimes homophobia then really rear it`s heads and the poor man(the female species gets away with this more, and gets contacted to play) gets shot down...and all he wanted was to satisfy the LADY of the couple. Most humans only see/read the ONE thing and not realize that the poor man like the female body just as much as them...and has NO designs on the male of the couple whom they contacted. Mostly it is the males who then shudders just with the thought of a pinky touching his balls.

Reading a written report of an investigative reporter  

I thought I would share....

Creating a label allows people to find those with similar sexual interests to them

Alongside the traditional orientations of heterosexual, homosexual, and bisexual, a myriad other options now exist in the lexicon, including:

• pansexual (gender-blind sexual attraction to all people)
• omnisexual (similar to pansexual, but actively attracted to all genders, rather than gender-blind)
• gynosexual (someone who’s sexually attracted to women—this doesn’t specify the subject’s own gender, as both “lesbian” and “heterosexual” do)
• demisexual (sexually attracted to someone based on a strong emotional connection)
• sapiosexual (sexually attracted to intelligence)
• objectumsexual (sexual attraction to inanimate objects)
• autosexual (someone who prefers masturbation to sexual activity with others)
• androgynosexual (sexual attraction to both men and women with an androgynous appearance)
• androsexual (sexual attraction towards men)
• asexual (someone who doesn’t experience sexual attraction)
• graysexual (occasionally experiencing sexual attraction, but usually not).

Apparently there is plenty more that she does not mention here, but it is enough to think about already.

I have mostly Labeled myself as pan-sexual while I was active on here, Nowadays I am labeling myself as a-sexual. But I might just change it to *gray-sexual*.

 I would say MOST profiles on here should be labeled...Auto-sexual.

Okay people, JUMP in and lets have a heavy discussion on this phenomena!!! Or are you to scared?

Thanks for this PIB, Learn something everyday ;-)

Very informative

Cool topic. And interesting, to boot. 

As far as people getting frustrated about the labeling and the unwanted attention on the site...I have to say it goes both ways. It stands to reason if a bi male looked at our profile and shows interest, I would assume he noticed I'm straight and the sexual interest is directed at the lady. The standing issue about the sites kicks in then...cause who the hell reads profiles anyhoot? I have seen straight male profiles looking for gay female couples...for what? Tea and scones? Half of the site issues...like labels and and and...is easy to fix with a well set up profile and a quick read. If someone isn't comfortable with your preferred sexual needs, move on.

The other thing equally interesting is the sudden surge of people not identifying anymore as their biological sex. But that's a whole other topic... 

Final thought... Respect. If you're a straight guy, don't let a bi guys interest in your wife scare you. News flash... He might not even be that into you. 😉

Quote by localcouple1234
 If you're a straight guy, don't let a bi guys interest in your wife scare you. News flash... He might not even be that into you. 😉

 I have to be honest, I laughed out loud. I get a number of views from male profiles, straight, bi and gay. Luckily not mail from all, bit some. I try to just be friendly in my reply, but clear about what I want and don't want. Usually they leave after that without much fuss and if they become a pest, I block just like any other profile has the option.

I've been caught out by the transgender profile, looking at the pic before reading...and that is my mistake, not theirs. So then you just move along if it's not your thing? I believe people are just that tad too sensitive...

pussingboots1 (Are you reading my emails) 

It's actually so funny that you brought this up tonight because I actually had to read up about all the different "Labels" this morning after we were contacted by a male from this site that identifies as Gender-Fluid. 

I have to admit i didnt have a Clue what that meant. And after 2 hours on Google and 30 min on YouTube I now know even less. It's very Confusing and way more brain power then I can spare on just asking what sex a person is. 

I don't judge, what ever Floats your GOAT! If a person wants to identify with a pine cone and that makes them HAPPY, Then be the best Damn pine cone there is!

localcouple1234 you hit the nail on the head "The standing issue about the sites kicks in then...cause who the hell reads profiles anyhoot?"

I Guarantee that half of the people that are going to read this post (Will not read this post, lol)

I'm a straight guy but it doesn't worry me if the other guy is bi and I often have guys commenting & complementing Me on my "Unsolicited Dick Pics". I don't see what the Big Deal is. Attached is one of my recent replies.

Im not sure how peoples Minds work but if a guy is perving over your naked picture it doesnt mean that you are gay... If a guy complements you on your package does not mean you will be Balls Deep in love with them later.

We have played with Bi Guys before and they were respectful and didn't once try make a move on me or make me feel uncomfortable at all.

Oh Shit, I just realised that "Maybe they weren't that into me" 

What the hell is wrong with me? ... lol

I'm definitely gynosexual

@ stred  I learn something new everyday.

@ localcouple1234  Man oh man.... tea and scones from a lesbian couple....LMAO,  as for Gender labels,  also a topic I read about and let me tell you I think some PARENTS should be put in a dark room with out water or food....to decide their kid should be raised as *gender fluid*  who in hell does something like that ...LET the KID decide when he/she is old enough to decide what they want to be......

@ sass8021   Pasting in...I've been caught out by the transgender profile, looking at the pic before reading...and that is my mistake

Transgender people sorta is in a BIND if they are busy with their transformation.... it is something they have to under go for a long time before they can say they are now who they are (and always felt they were) Their sex drive does NOT disappear in that transforming time....so where should/would they go for release?? I really feel for them! I do not think they all have the courage to tell strange men they are busy transforming into the female they are. sometimes they just want to have a hug and some companionship, and sherbet, do they become beautiful women!!!!!!

@ PoohC   I can only wish.....  LMAO    Yeah, all those new Gender identifications makes my own mind want to go hide behind a tree.

@ ash  High five to you!!!!