Kissing during a full swop with a couple?

What are your views on kissing during a full swop? The man says yes the wife says no ?  Is she being unfair

It is in my view totally up to the woman in this situation. If she says no kissing, then no is no. 

However, without kissing would be a bit weird. If somebody kisses extremely good, It is a very big turn on for me personally. But people differ.

You wanna put your cock deep inside my wife? Let your bulbous bell end batter her womb? Fine. Just don't go to first base with her please. Thats a no-no. You can fuck her ass as hard and for as long as you want...  but for the love of sweet baby jebsus, don't you dare peck her on her pouting lips. That's a no-no.

Sure buddy. You can use my car. Wheelspin it. Handbrake turn it. Rev it till the valves bounce. Redline that sucker till the discs glow red...  but whatever you do...  do NOT use the cupholders. Those are for MY special moments.

We have personally never understood the logic. Some couples say that kissing is reserved for their intimacy. As in... kissing is "special" and only meant for "tender loving moments" while swinging is just fucking. 

Meh. Each to their own. 

lol. @2some. yeaaaa, i just love those couples. and afterwards when the girl asks you why you didnt kiss her? your hubby said you dont like kissing. 

Just love the kissing part. It highten the sexual energy. 

You can cum in my mouth, but don't kiss me?

It's a No from us. We don't mind everything else but for us "Kissing" is very intimate so it is something that we keep between us. Having said that we do understand that during the moment of passion with another person t might accidentally happen but it's not something that we would continue doing.

In our game of play we normally dont kiss, but it has happened that regardless through the exstacy of climax and sometimes foreplay the lust or shear lust drives the animal within and so we do not condem nor push the idea away. We are a quiet and maybe a fussy couple in many aspects but we became swingers to have nsa fun, not to debate about things of no value. our profile speaks for itself, many will carry a story, others will speak highly but in the end as the others say, each to thier own.

It's a really intimate thing, so the couple need to decide and express their thoughts as part of the ground rules. 

Referencing from an MFM perspective.

As a woman I can say that sex , any sex is intimate on some level . For women arousal is 99% mental.  Taking kissing out of the play does take some arousal out of it as well . 

When we play ( these days more if than when ... ) we go all in . It's up to you to enjoy that moment.  

I do understand that people have reservations about kissing and why ... but to each his own . 

I have found over the years though that those with less " Rules and Regulations" tend to be and have more fun 

Kisses xxxxxx

depends on the connection