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Quote by Pussinboots1
@ CamFun
Now you have me wondering what you (the gent here) looks like, if you say you may have a *better* body than what you yourself think...after reading my comment after viewing stamina`s body.
soooooooooo ......................where is that invite??? HUH, HUH, HUH????
Really? You want to see? I suppose it's about time we uploaded pics again. We decided to remove our pics and even closed our account at the time, because we didn't like the quality of attention they were getting. Removing them weeded out a lot of the people who we would not be compatible with. There were fewer bullshitters and pic traders to deal with. Any contact we make here will be based mainly on how well we interact when chatting. Removing out pics has drastically decreased the quantity of people we meet, but has increased the quality.
Pussinboots, I don't think I have a great body. My six pack disappeared soon after meeting Cam. It's not my fault! Cam is a truly incredible cook. I'm not making excuses. Honestly! You try eating here and not over indulging!
Quote by Pussinboots1
@ CamFun
I still maintain my view that the ladies will like stamina`s body!!!!!
No doubt. Cam agrees as well. The point we're making is that is not our opinion of athletic. That's in response to Stamina asking people not to lie on their profiles. The point I'm making is that many if them may not be lying. What they've written is exactly what they believe. If it wasn't they would not upload pics that are the opposite of what they described in their profile.
In our opinions they may be completely deluded, but that's not lying...and more importantly, is it right to ask them not to be "deluded?"
Eish I know a good cook (like your lovey and my girlfriend) are a wonderful gift to have,not every one has that luxury to have a wifey who cooks *lekker*
I know you guys are sparring about body image, I am just being obnoxious with pushing my nose in where it does not belong sometimes.
People tend not to see/read the lighter side of some comments sometimes.
And nope, as much as I like to perv, you need not really open your pics ,or upload new ones. I was more in a teasing mood yesterday.
Yip pics do look different sometimes... I have a view pics of myself that even I find *sexy* but think could be misleading.... hence why I took a deep breath shut my eyes tight and took the full body pic of myself.
Mostly because I simply do feel that even thought I describe myself as 'large' it does not realy bring the picture home. I used to want to call myself a BBW, but a good friend from the site used to *fight* with me and tell my I am not one according to his opinion....so as much as I don't like looking at my pic I felt guys/couples should know what they are in for when we get the planning right to meet!
and of course in my eyes hubby is *muscular* even if the six pack is bit wobbly after marrige (not my cooking, his own!)
But yes, honesty is important, we've chatted to a local gent who said single, turned out to be married!
and of course in my eyes hubby is *muscular* even if the six pack is bit wobbly after marrige (not my cooking, his own!)
But yes, honesty is important, we've chatted to a local gent who said single, turned out to be married! 
Sexlightened
Stamina wrote a piece on the importance of HONESTY? We managed to splutter but one word: "hypocrite" before we laughed for hours
Thanks for making our tummy muscles work....maybe we can change our descriptions to: "muscular" soon :lol: :lol: :lol:
Thanks for making our tummy muscles work....maybe we can change our descriptions to: "muscular" soon :lol: :lol: :lol:
Quote by NawtyCat
Stamina wrote a piece on the importance of HONESTY ? We managed to splutter but one word: "hypocrite" before we laughed for hours
Thanks for making our tummy muscles work....maybe we can change our descriptions to: "muscular" soon :lol: :lol: :lol:
I like the forums when we all "debate"... Not so nice when debates become arguments and personal (unfounded) attacks. Seems some people here get defensive when a "general" topic is in discussion... What makes me a hypocrite?
Quote by CamFun
While I do agree that a person the size of a mini cooper should not call themselves slim, you have to realise that in peoples' profiles, they are describing themselves. A description of oneself will almost always be, by definition, subjective.
Case in point, when I looked at your profile, you state "Athletic" Build. In my honest opinion your are not athletic. You're average. Nothing in that one pic implies that I am looking at an athlete. This is my Opinion. Would it be fair of me to say that you are lying in your description? Of course not! You filled in you profile based on what you think of yourself. It's only fair to allow others to do the same.
Uhm? Look again. This will sound like bragging but is not. I am very active, I play an array of sports. I do free weights in the gym every day for an hour, 6 days a week for the past 9 years, etc. I am in-shape! I have toned pectorals, flat stomach, toned biceps, etc... I have a metobolism that works at the speed of light, I do not put on fat, it just runs in the family. I never chose athletic for lack of a more accurate discription - I chose athletic because that is the exact description. I am in-shape but not muscular as a body builder. I weigh 80 kg, at a hieght of 187cm. I have no belly, muffin tops or other fat, etc. But I guess what was said about people seeing what they want to see is in play here - not fact. I may be in error then when I see my toned muscles in the mirror. Any opinions people? I am now curious to know how others see me.
Ok, It bit. I looked at the pics. To ME, You're not in bad shape. Not fat. Not skinny. I still don't consider what I see as being athletic. I see a slim guy. Not a toned athlete. By your description of your love of sports and exercise you are an athletic person....Yet I don't consider your build to be an athletic one. Perhaps its due to me judging men's figures by the same standards that I would judge my own. Whatever it is, my idea of athletic is obviously different from yours. Its subjective.
After reading Pussinboots comments I'm beginning to wonder if even I have a "better body" than I suspect.
For a second opinion, I asked my wife how she would describe your build. I told her nothing of this conversation. Her exact words, " Tall and slim"
Is this what she would think of when she hears the words, 'Athletic built' Her answer, "No, not really"
Could this guy be an athlete, "Yes..."
Our views on figures:
This is an athletic build:
Note the tones pectorals. :wink:
This is where muscular starts:
This is too much....and still muscular:
And this is taking things to a new level:
Those are our views. Views are subjective. It would be wrong of us to expect your views to match ours.
Now, the boring stuff aside: Those are flippin sexy bikes! My view :lol:
First: Thanks for the compliment on the bikes... Second: Followed the links, all agreed. Third: I started something here and realised after some input that I am in actual fact more slim than athletic. So agreed. 5 females mailed me: 4 said slim, 1 said athletic. You are correct and I am wrong. So will change my profile to slim and change gym schedule to 2 hours a day.
Quote by skinnyup
Stamina, such pettiness. Really! The site does have issues as we know. This is a first. Are you upset because you only look for slim and what you see is not as skinny as, well, me?
I read your profile and what stood out should be debated, no fault of yours (the check box was provided), but what is "almost single"?
Almost divorced= going through proceedings
Almost married= date is set
Almost single= in a shitty relationship? Living with but partner has no interest in the lifestyle?
Point is you are still in a relationship and are you playing fair?
Almost single: I am seeing someone. Not serious and so far not leading to serious. Not married, engaged, going out, or committed in any way. She lives her life, I live mine, somewhere in between we see each other. Hope it clarifies...
And I am not upset about anything...
