Would be interesting to hear the other members on SH's hit rate. The number of people contacting them vs the number they actually meet and get to play with.
Rough estimate for us is running at about 120 : 1 :-(
That is for every 120 people contacting us and we get to play with one. A clear case of to much effort for too little return :-)
In the good old days we probably had a hit rate of 10 to 1 . But can't really blame the site for that we were very picky.
We can however mention some areas where we had the best hit rate and experiences.
1 . MP highveld - especially Secunda but Middleburg and Witbank also good areas
2. Benoni and boksburg
3 . Capetown
Things might have changed over time but I would suggest that couples that want to up their hit rate , should give these areas a try
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In the good old days we probably had a hit rate of 10 to 1 . But can't really blame the site for that we were very picky.
We can however mention some areas where we had the best hit rate and experiences.
1 . MP highveld - especially Secunda but Middleburg and Witbank also good areas
2. Benoni and boksburg
3 . Capetown
Things might have changed over time but I would suggest that couples that want to up their hit rate , should give these areas a try
Not blaming the site or any of the members. Our preference in who we want to play with is just very scarce on here and ourselves and how we play, are also not to everybody's liking. We not complaining just an interesting fact/observation kind of thing and we were wondering if maybe other couples also find their preference in play partners scarce? We have no limits in areas. All over South Africa works for us.
We will always be definately picky about who we play with .
Think the point of this thread is being missed. We not interested or complaining about quantity but we more into those fun and quality type experiences.
Be they few and far between is also good :-)
Imagine having 100% Success Rate!That would be terrible, Yesterday alone we got 140+/- emails 100% would put us Off sex for life.
Out of those 140 if we Only get 1 that we play with, we would be happy! (Thats because that person would be exactly what we wanted, we are on the same page into the same kinky shit getting together for exactly the same thing)
What allot of people don't understand about lifestyle couples and especially about female swingers is that, they DO NOT want to F#ck Every Guy they see. They are NOT DESPERATE! so if you are thinking that you are going to find a bunch of Bored Horny Slutty Nympho Housewives in your Area that want to fuck you with absolutely NO EFFORT from your side...
Then You need to Take a break from jerking off to Porn on the internet, Wash Your Hands! Oh Yes, and You are a F#cking Idiot!
It's got nothing to do with this Site, we belong to a Shit load of sites and we post ads all over speak to hundreds of people and This site is Hands Down is the Best!
The way we look at it is, if we get 1 out of 100 It's Awesome! And not every playdate works out perfectly, some of them have been terrible and we are also ok with that, because if all of them were awesome all the time nothing would stand out and be memorable.
The bad ones make the Good Ones even better...
@poohc HAHAHAHAHAHAHA...well said! That is a lovely reality check!! I want to tell that to sooooo many guys.
HELP NEEDED / to explain a few things as NOT sure WTF happend!
Im sort of new on this forum thing and have never really been into chatrooms etc
I've been in the lifestyle since 16 and been horny sice birth and from there Its what I did. What I realised these past few days and 375 emails "that has left me with the most confused look" is that I have not been in the dating scene or apparently earth things. I don't want to name and shame anyone. I don't want to complain. What. I want to do is HELP show people why they are not getting sex. And give a few tips.
Where would I post that Information. (Please note this info will contain a bit of sarcasm and a few cuss words but It will help you have sex on this site)
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Well, the forum has an "Anything goes" section, so just go there and start a new thread.
I would mail you in an instant @havesbc but I have learnt not to be a single male pest.
@seeman I cannot really comment here, as I am Not meeting or even require private mails this time around. BUT I can mention from my previous profile, I received a LOT of mail some really degrading some really charming. I have made a lot of friends and even to this day I remain friends with some couples and singles, and sometimes still meet for a coffee or a nice dinner here at home(with my lovey)
@PoohC Go right ahead and post all your grievances and advice RIGHT here in the Fora...
