Enthusiastic Female Partner

I love encounters with couples but never feel comfortable when I sense the lady is simply going along with things to make her partner happy and isn't really into it herself.  Much prefer a down to earth couple where the female half of the couple is enthusiastic and really wants a MFM play. How do others feel?

Not sure if you're being serious with that question 🤔 

Would think the answer is painfully obvious. Yes we prefer a willing partner over one who's clearly against swinging and only doing it to hang on to their tenuous relationship. 

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I love encounters with couples but never feel comfortable when I sense the lady is simply going along with things to make her partner happy and isn't really into it herself.  Much prefer a down to earth couple where the female half of the couple is enthusiastic and really wants a MFM play. How do others feel?

 It happens often where the lady is just trying to keep her husband happy and her marriage together. We have walked out of a few play dates once we picked up what was going on. Have also seen woman that were way Too Enthusiastic, this is also not a fun encounter but luckily we haven't had that many bad experiences 

Mrs enjoys our games with total enthusiasm, watches me getting a service from another man then opens all her holes to him to use to cure her by then horny state.

Have actually watched her standing legs wide dripping while watching the starters.

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Mrs enjoys our games with total enthusiasm, watches me getting a service from another man then opens all her holes to him to use to cure her by then horny state.
Have actually watched her standing legs wide dripping while watching the starters.

 Wow that must be a sight to behold

If the lady is not totally involved its like riding a bicycle without a seat! Senseless!

I once met with the female of the couple for coffee. (The couple were Okay with meeting separately) While we were talking I was really trying to get her to be open about why she was swinging because I was getting a vibe that she was only really doing this for the husband. 

She basically just said look I mean it's cool and all but she really is just doing it for the husband because it makes him happy. If it wasn't for him she wouldn't be doing this. 

Well obviously after that, I had to decline. 

It all is straight forwardly one very important aspect. That is., "the attitude towards the lifestyle" as such and together with that the comfort of the lady in assosiation with other persons or single men they as couple experience. She must feel unthreatened and welcome. Then,  she will naturally live out her own sensual desires spontaniously.  

Wow...And I was roped in once to take over his role.....So engrossed in his business deals and coporate work that he lost interest entirely. ..

However he insisted that he be present at all meets.....Was very uncomfortable having him sit with a laptop and phone while pleasuring his wife....After a few meets ..she and I decided to go it alone....but when he found out it ended....... (or so he thinks)