My 2cents:
All my partners before my husband were cut. Hand jobs were a mission, which probably had something to do with my technique - I was trying to get them to come, not thinking about the pleasure of the process...
Anyway, my husband was my first uncut penis I got to play with. My goodness! It was such fun! Using the foreskin to masturbate him was great, as it just slides where I want it to go.
It was also with my husband that I learnt about playing with his penis for the fun of it.
On the note of hygiene, some of the cut penises smelt just as *ripe* after a long hot day. K_ is very hygienic, so I have never had any complaints regarding excess smegma or anything like that.
C_ :smile:
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Just saw a very thick cock, but sadly hardly any head because his foreskin is so tight that it did not develope properly
Parents, who do not curcansize, need to be aware of this and practice drawing back of the foreskin to clean and this will then also allow a loose foreskin and allow the head to develope properly
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Just saw a very thick cock, but sadly hardly any head because his foreskin is so tight that it did not develope properly
Parents, who do not circumsize, need to be aware of this and practice drawing back of the foreskin to clean and this will then also allow a loose foreskin and allow the head to develop properly
Voyer, this isn't nice / really unlucky? Sort of how the genes just divide? When you aren't circ'ed, then it so happens that certain foreskins are much 'looser' than others? But off course if it isn't then you actually have to work it harder to loosen / stretch? I do find that a good sized 'head' look more 'aggressive' and now the foreskin can actually hamper that development?
Not good, not good at all!!
I was an adult by the time I had built up enogh courage to go see a doctor to get circumcised.
My girlfriend at the time was quite in favour of me having the foreskin removed, she loved the looks of circumcised cocks!
I went to see a Jewish doctor in Joburg, a Urologist. I didn't want any unfamiliar work.........
He was extreemly pleasant. At first he thought I wanted a vasectomy when I said I'm here for an embarrasing operation. He asked how many children I had and I said none yet. Then he said "Oh sorry, you obviously then would like to have your foreskin circumcised?" I said yes........ He said it is a very common request by adult guys and he has done hundreds of them, if not more, over his career lifespan! I said that was encouraging.
Then he said they normally use a local anaesthetic, but I could also have a full dope. I said definitely local! I want to see how you do it!
He then asked me to come lie on the table to examine me. I pulled down my pants to expose my penis and laid down. He then took it and pushed the foreskin back as far as he could. He said it was a normal, healthy looking foreskin. Then he said they either take it off just over the rim, or on the rim. I actually in hindsight wanted what they call a "High and tight circumcision". This is where the foreskin is cut off as far back on the shaft as possible, leaving all the inner lining and placing the circumcision scar far back behind the rim of the head. I also wanted a tight circumcision, which would have meant that little skin bunched up against the head when flaccid and the shaft-skin would be tought when erect. (I actually had my cock re-circumcised by him 10 years later to make it tight, something that he also does for lots of men. Since then it has been perfect!)
Then he called his secretary to make an appointment for me to have it circumcised. She was fairly attractive and in her 30's. I had a fair erection by this time with him holding it with the foreskin now fully retracted. When I got up to dress and leave, I noticed that from where she would have entered the room to answer him when called, she would have been able to see the lower half of my body whilst he was speaking to her, so she must have been able to see him holding my erect penis.....
This was all on the Friday. I was scheduled to be circumcised on the following Monday. He said he likes to schedule quickly, before the guys change their minds and chicken out. When his secretary made the appointment for me, she did mention how much I am going to prefer having a circumcised penis. I still wonder if she was moist whilst doing all this.
My next contact was arriving Monday morning at the clinic to be circumcised.
I was circumcised when I was around 5 due to phimosis - my circ was the result of lack of education and a single mom.
I think that the responses to the various topics raised in this discussion will be as varied as the people posting them.
In the instance of adult men who have been unhappy with their foreskin, I've met guys who have opted to keep their foreskins permanently retracted, and have been happy with their decision. I've also met the occasional guy who decided to be circumcised and was happy with having it done. In such instances, they've been happy because they found that it made them less sensitive (a few felt that being circumcised made them more sensitive) and their sexual contact was more pleasurable, while not having to be as concerned about unwanted odours or smegma.
Personally,I would have preferred not to have been cut and being bi, I don't mind whether my sexual partners are cut or uncut, although foreskin is nice to play with/pleasure.
In one of her shows, American stand-up comedian Margaret Cho talks about how she loves going down on queer men, cos queer men know that when their zippers go down, they're going to be judged. I'm mentioning this, not as a dig at anyone (because I ascribe to an approach of breaking people down into only two compartments: whether they are good or bad people), but because in some instances, it may simply be the result of experiential truth; the guy in question has never had any contact with another guy, so he's oblivious to what it's like...and since he is with himself, 24/7, he just doesn't know...and he may just lack sexual experience to top it off.
I have had only one experience where the bloke in question was in need of freshening up, and it was very clear that it wasn't deliberate. A simple, "I love showering with a guy," did the trick (although I actually do - so much fun); the issue was resolved and his dignity was intact.
I have been on the other side of the coin, so I know what it can be like: at one point, I lived in the Caribbean and subsequently, Mexico. Between the sweltering temperatures (35 degrees by 3am) and 100% humidity 24/7, I could smell myself, pedantic as I am about my personal hygiene. In spite of showering numerous times a day and wearing clean undies after each shower, shaving off all of my pubic hair and eventually resorting to the use of talcum powder, nothing helped. Going commando eventually helped somewhat, but not entirely. It took a couple of weeks before my body adjusted to the climate, and then the issue resolved itself. It was a deeply embarrassing experience and I was constantly self-conscious to the point of trying to avoid being around people.
The caveat to all of this is that from my experience, there can oftentimes be such a stigma attached to a guy being uncut, and it can lead to them being OCD and self-conscious about it...where they see the need to constantly wash themselves, lest they smell...in spite of there being absolutely nothing wrong with them in even the slightest way. In such instances, it has taken quite a bit of effort on my part to convince them that they can relax about it.
Apologies for the long spiel.
I was scheduled for 8 O'clock Monday morning after seeing the Urologist. I arrived at about quarter to 8 to leave time for admission paperwork, correctly so...
Because he scheduled me so quickly for snipping after seeing me on the Friday, one of the things I am sorry about is that my partner was not with me for my circumcision, she had wanted to be, but was away for a week. I should have been more adament and made it later for her to be with me. She had wanted to be with me whilst they circumcised me to watch.
The woman admitting me asked what I was here for and I said to be circumcised. She gave a warm reassuring smile and said I would be out in a few minutes and that I was going to love being circumcised. She very obviously preferred circumcised cocks!
I then went up to the theatres where I was taken in by the scrub sister. She gave me one of those simple(minimal) gowns to put on, and told me to put it on back to front, with the open side in front and come through to the theatre when I'm changed. It barely fitted around me and my jewels kept poking out in front! I went in and she had me lay down on the table and gave me a cushion for my head.
Then 3 student nurses came to join in and "learn", followed by a fellow scrub sister who just wanted to watch a circumcision. 5 women present.....
The scrub sister then opened my gown to expose my penis. Than morning after showering, I had wanked to get the hornyness of getting circumcised out and it would be the last wank for a few days too!(12)
I pulled my foreskin properly over the head to fully cover it, sticking out in front of the head like most baby's foreskins do.
She then presented a rasor and told me she needed to trim a bit..... That was where I started to shave and have ever since.
Now there were 5 women watching, my penis started to swell as she held it to shave it. I thought of polar bears, desert cacti, racing cars....it stopped swelling.
Then she picked up a swab to clean it....... She looked me in the eye, from behind her sultry nurse mask and said "That's the last time a woman pulls your foreskin back". I INSTANTLY became rock hard!! Shit,, I was embarassed. She said not to worry, it is normal for most guys. The nursing students were chatting amongst themselves about circumcision and how they all liked and preferred it for their partners and would have all their boys circumcised too! I remained rock hard whilst she cleaned the head to distraction. All the time she was applying definite pressure to the skin ,pulling it back, which in itself is stimulating. In hindsight, I think she knew this and was doing so on purpose...
Now I was "prepped" for the surgeon, and erect!
I saw him through the glass doors arriving ready, my erection wilted!
He askedhow I felt, good! Then women had all been assuring me how much nicer it is to be circumcised, so I was excited!
She then pulled the foreskin over the head again, not really properly, which is probably why he didn't take off enough foreskin the first time. He then injected me with local all the way round in the foreskin at the base of my glans.
Then she held my penis whilst he cut through the outer layer all the way round along the rim of the glans. Then he cut through both layers of the foreskin from the opening down to about 1cm from the rim. She then held the open foreskin whilst he used a scissors to circumcise it all the way round. A large piece of foreskin suddenly came away. He asked if he can send it away for pathology tests. (money.....) I said ok, and wondered what the technician would be thinking when she had to investigate some guys circumcised foreskin! she then held my penis whilst he stitched the two layers together.I was rather amazed at how little it actually bled.
Then she wrapped me in a dressing and all was done! I was now CIRCUMCISED! The girls attending and the other scrub sister all commented on how nice it looked.
I drove home alone in a bit of a mind-fuck....
More to follow.
I think, for me anyway, one of the biggest benefits of now being circumcised is the feeling I get from my penis during sex now that it has been properly circumcised.
Prior to being circumcised, when I was with a girl, as soon as she had taken my penis out or undressed me, I was usually erect or semi-erect by then and because I normally wore my foreskin fully retracted the head was fully exposed. So when I now pushed my hard erection into her, the head slides against her vaginal walls directly. However after just a few thrusts, the foreskin starts to slide up and come between her walls and the head. Now you have the situation where the head is covered by the foreskin whilst inside her and is now actually sliding in and out of itself instead of rubbing against her vaginal wall in direct contact.
My ex's vagina on the inside had a texture a bit like a smooth but freshly plucked chicken skin, so it was wonderfully stimulating to the head of my penis! But when we were thrusting, I didn't feel that much of the contact on the head . so, either she or I had to reach down and hold the foreskin back with our fingers. She immediately would comment on how much better that felt because she could now feel the outline of my head which was a turn-on for her.
I have always loved "doggy" the most as my favourite sex position which was always the easiest position for me to come with.
Once the foreskin had been circumcised, the head was now permanently and fully exposed, and stayed that way whilst thrusting during sex. I was now able to come much quicker. (I suffer from "delayed orgasm" due to too much masturbation as a child whilst practicing to not come for as long as possible, according to the sex manuals at the time, for the benefit or the woman...)
I love the sight of a beautifully circumcised penis, especially in the mouth of a woman, or rubbing against her face or boobs. I think the foreskin is something that should be circumcised for aesthetic reasons alone if nothing else. I know a lot of women who believe this and there are plenty more women who feel the same but just "can't" say so because their lovers are not circumcised.
I would love to hear from other guys (and especially their female lovers) who were circumcised as adults or once sexually active. I am also keen to receive mail from any and all women who are turned on or intruiged by the circumcised penis.
Master of Sex
I have commented before that i prefer circumsized penises because of oral and cleanliness. But have seen and had the most perfect uncut one, so now i am changing my mind lol. Although this one does not have that much skin and can pass for cut, doe that sound weird??.
Sircumsized, i like ur story on how u got cut and describing the feelings that go along with me i have always appreciated the cut ones because of how it feels inside, but i tend to tear or hurt those guys.
