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Can we make this site what it says on the label, Please?

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Make Swinging Heaven South Africa only accesable from South Africa

Look, I have been known to use my personality as a form of contraception, but there are few genuine swingers on here or other similar sites. There are lots of 419 scammers, cheating spouse and my pet peeve - all talk, but no show. At the risk of being called zenophobic can we not limit this website to South Africans only? It is called Swinging Heaven South Africa. I feel this is a reasonable request based on section 2.1 of the Terms of Use (I can be an anal retentive geek, when I need the fine print to work for me). Sure the cut n paste fine print defined under the terms of use do prattle on about falling under UK law and would stand about as much chance, under SA law, as Riva in Oscar's toilet. For those of you that have not read it, let me quote just section 2.1" Swinging Heaven South Africa is a website dedicated to swinging. It is completely free to register as a member of this site. On this site you'll find a personals system, a forum message board, web cams, a live chat room, swinging advice and information on all matters relating to swingers across South Africa." I did not see Nigeria, Canada, Ghana, Southern England, Germany et al. Just Souf Africa. I must admit from personal experience, the admin staff do take the reported stuff seriously, deleting & blocking the scammers quicker than a Nigerian can tell you you have won the lotto. Now, to the Nigerians legally in SA, who take umbrage, may I point out that, you are the only country in the world that has a government department for the 419 scam. France has Champagne, SA has Rooibos and Nigeria has The 419 Scam. You also have Ebola, please don't export either to us here in South Africa and we will try and keep that philandering ex goat herder and Nkandla Graft in South Africa. I digress, my original request is to limit this site to those with SA IP Adresses only. To those who are watching Netflix via a VPN illegally, sorry for you. Can we have Swinging Heaven for South Africans only? That's my stir of the pot, feel free to post comments and generally do your thing under UK law.
Why not put this tread under site help, think then you will have more response. There are people with high education on the site, who can debate the case, in lenght
My first reaction was that you have had an unpleasant run in with a "international member" . .. then I remembered that the postal code system in use on this site can be a little frustrating at times (according to distance locator, some areas are 110km away from me when in actual fact they are 900km) however, this is the internet, it cannot be 100% accurate at all times. So I am going back to my initial reaction of you having had an unpleasant run-in with an international member.
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Look, I have been known to use my personality as a form of contraception, but there are few genuine swingers on here or other similar sites. There are lots of 419 scammers, cheating spouse and my pet peeve - all talk, but no show. At the risk of being called zenophobic can we not limit this website to South Africans only? It is called Swinging Heaven South Africa.
I feel this is a reasonable request based on section 2.1 of the Terms of Use (I can be an anal retentive geek, when I need the fine print to work for me). Sure the cut n paste fine print defined under the terms of use do prattle on about falling under UK law and would stand about as much chance, under SA law, as Riva in Oscar's toilet. For those of you that have not read it, let me quote just section 2.1" Swinging Heaven South Africa is a website dedicated to swinging. It is completely free to register as a member of this site. On this site you'll find a personals system, a forum message board, web cams, a live chat room, swinging advice and information on all matters relating to swingers across South Africa." I did not see Nigeria, Canada, Ghana, Southern England, Germany et al. Just Souf Africa.
I must admit from personal experience, the admin staff do take the reported stuff seriously, deleting & blocking the scammers quicker than a Nigerian can tell you you have won the lotto. Now, to the Nigerians legally in SA, who take umbrage, may I point out that, you are the only country in the world that has a government department for the 419 scam. France has Champagne, SA has Rooibos and Nigeria has The 419 Scam. You also have Ebola, please don't export either to us here in South Africa and we will try and keep that philandering ex goat herder and Nkandla Graft in South Africa.
I digress, my original request is to limit this site to those with SA IP Adresses only. To those who are watching Netflix via a VPN illegally, sorry for you.
Can we have Swinging Heaven for South Africans only? That's my stir of the pot, feel free to post comments and generally do your thing under UK law.

What a horrible and nasty post, with undertones of rascism throughout. How dare you request that this site be limited to a particular demographic.
Swingers come in all shapes/sizes/genders and is open to all. By limiting site access to a specific location you run the risk of narrowing the swinging scene numbers.
Go put your toys back in your pram your dummy in your mouth and toddle off into a corner :twisted:
Personally I disagree. As per one of your earlier comments regarding 419 scams. Ip spoofing is ridiculously easy, so any Nigerian scammed who wants to access this site learnt how to defeat IPs on their first day of scamming. My second point is that most foreigners I've met have also disclosed there location by that part of the profile that reads Location. Shocking I know. Granted there are those that lie, but I'm sure a ban on foreigners won't stop them faking their profile as they already have done. Next we have a very lovely lady from the UK who's active on the forum, if we banned her I would be very depressed to see her leave in favour of a narrow minded local I would still never meet in real life. Lastly I just have to say this. The Internet, you do know what it is right? Last time I checked it was a large network connecting people across the globe, last time I checked I didn't need to cross border control to visit sites in America and Canada. Now if you don't mind I'm going to visit a Canadian gaming forum I frequent to chat to some Canadians on a Canadian site for people from Canada were strangely the welcome me from SA. Afterwards I'm gonna visit an American tech site before they also bring about border control.
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Personally I disagree.
As per one of your earlier comments regarding 419 scams.
Ip spoofing is ridiculously easy, so any Nigerian scammed who wants to access this site learnt how to defeat IPs on their first day of scamming.
My second point is that most foreigners I've met have also disclosed there location by that part of the profile that reads Location. Shocking I know. Granted there are those that lie, but I'm sure a ban on foreigners won't stop them faking their profile as they already have done.
Next we have a very lovely lady from the UK who's active on the forum, if we banned her I would be very depressed to see her leave in favour of a narrow minded local I would still never meet in real life.
Lastly I just have to say this. The Internet, you do know what it is right? Last time I checked it was a large network connecting people across the globe, last time I checked I didn't need to cross border control to visit sites in America and Canada.
Now if you don't mind I'm going to visit a Canadian gaming forum I frequent to chat to some Canadians on a Canadian site for people from Canada were strangely the welcome me from SA. Afterwards I'm gonna visit an American tech site before they also bring about border control.

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Quote by Irish
Look, I have been known to use my personality as a form of contraception, but there are few genuine swingers on here or other similar sites. There are lots of 419 scammers, cheating spouse and my pet peeve - all talk, but no show. At the risk of being called zenophobic can we not limit this website to South Africans only? It is called Swinging Heaven South Africa.
I feel this is a reasonable request based on section 2.1 of the Terms of Use (I can be an anal retentive geek, when I need the fine print to work for me). Sure the cut n paste fine print defined under the terms of use do prattle on about falling under UK law and would stand about as much chance, under SA law, as Riva in Oscar's toilet. For those of you that have not read it, let me quote just section 2.1" Swinging Heaven South Africa is a website dedicated to swinging. It is completely free to register as a member of this site. On this site you'll find a personals system, a forum message board, web cams, a live chat room, swinging advice and information on all matters relating to swingers across South Africa." I did not see Nigeria, Canada, Ghana, Southern England, Germany et al. Just Souf Africa.
I must admit from personal experience, the admin staff do take the reported stuff seriously, deleting & blocking the scammers quicker than a Nigerian can tell you you have won the lotto. Now, to the Nigerians legally in SA, who take umbrage, may I point out that, you are the only country in the world that has a government department for the 419 scam. France has Champagne, SA has Rooibos and Nigeria has The 419 Scam. You also have Ebola, please don't export either to us here in South Africa and we will try and keep that philandering ex goat herder and Nkandla Graft in South Africa.
I digress, my original request is to limit this site to those with SA IP Adresses only. To those who are watching Netflix via a VPN illegally, sorry for you.
Can we have Swinging Heaven for South Africans only? That's my stir of the pot, feel free to post comments and generally do your thing under UK law.

What a horrible and nasty post, with undertones of rascism throughout. How dare you request that this site be limited to a particular demographic.
Swingers come in all shapes/sizes/genders and is open to all. By limiting site access to a specific location you run the risk of narrowing the swinging scene numbers.
Go put your toys back in your pram your dummy in your mouth and toddle off into a corner :twisted:
@Cunning Tongue, If I was you, I would report this response from @Irish as abusive and offensive.
While I haven't actually seen any reports I don't like the direction this is going in so I'm going to lock the thread.