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Warming the Bed
There are hundreds of words and descriptions for male and female genitals, as we all know.
Dick, prick, penis, cock, log, trunk, piepie, snotslang....................
Fanny, vagina, cunt, pussy, love trench, heaven's gate, twat, crowd pleaser, snotsloot, man cave, koekie, vajayjay......................................
It depends on the circumstance and the individual as to when, how and in what environment the word is used.
Is it really degrading? It's very much a personal opinion.
My partner is quite happy with my referring to her genitals as pussy. And she calls mine Moby, as in Moby Dick!
I do agree that cunt is aweful and crass. Vagina is far too clinical. Read some of the stories by clicking on the "Stories" box and read how the writers use the names for that pleasurable item between a woman's legs, for want of a better description.
I think that, when meeting a new couple, as in our case, be upfront and ask what terms may be offensive. The subject certainly arises (no pun!) in conversation and one has to refer to "it" in some way. You just can't avoid it!!
Sexpert
Its really nice to know and it just goes to show how different people are.i have never met anyone (until now) that finds the word pussy last gf referred to her parts as her cake or cakey ( which I thought was adorable because I love eating cake ) and i dont know of anyone named pussy but one of my favourite bond girls was pussy galour...played by the lovely Honour Blackman .
) and i dont know of anyone named pussy but one of my favourite bond girls was pussy galour...played by the lovely Honour Blackman . I had to smile when I read this forum sorry joyrider,it made me smile,especially that you think there is no hope for us. Hallelujah to us !!!* We who use the nice dirty word.*
WE are the really sex fiends. go,going and gone straight to hell.
BUT whadda a way to go.
Pussy is a really tame word, if you use it in the context of genitals, MUCH better than the LOT of words that Malcolm_1Cheryl give you as an example and yeah pussy it is a nice*softer* word for me as well.
If there is an awfull ways to describe sex and genitals it is is REALLY in Afrikaans. and do not get me wrong,I am a STOERE BOERE Tannie,and proud to be one.
@ Voyeur...My nickname is actually not the genital part of me, but the cat lovers part of me that I used when choosing this nick...;)
BUT hey, you made this old lady feel special with your nice words. Thanks.
@ joyrider,LASTLY I would like to know how you talk (if ever)bedroom dirty to your lovey and what do you call her *pussy* in a loving way??? YOU NEVER said.
Hi all
Pussinboots I do not talk dirty in the bed room my mouth is too busy to talk. :lol: I do not even have a nick name for what my lovely wife's .......... Maybe I am just trying too hard to be a gentleman. the only time I do use those words is when I get road rage. :lol: :lol:
Maybe I am not like all men or maybe I am defective. Who knows :lol: :lol:
Rider
:lol: I do not even have a nick name for what my lovely wife's .......... Maybe I am just trying too hard to be a gentleman. the only time I do use those words is when I get road rage. :lol: :lol:
Maybe I am not like all men or maybe I am defective. Who knows :lol: :lol:
Rider I don't find anything wrong with your post and the thread of responses that followed!
I can clearly see that your mouth have things to do and there's no time for talking when it comes to your wife and the "bedroom sports"! That is VERY gentlemanly to me!!
Us other guys should do less yada yada and more 'suck suck' 
go Rider go!
go Rider go! Well guys ....
I just want to say....
I talk a LOT and Laugh a lot in MY bedroom games. And yeah When ,I sit on top and ride cowboy-style and I wave my little riding crop around in the air,while bumping and grinding up and down,I shout at the top of my voice..
*giddy up, giddy up* *go faster or slower* and *go cowboy gooooooo* !!!!....what ever.
I am noisy and I am verbal.
How does one make love being quiet??? Even if my mouth and lips are busy, I MOAN,I GROAN and show my appreciation!!!
BUT heck, this is just me yeah.....
Have a lady friend, we stopped in Snake valley and man did she wake up the place
But in the sex act I also do not use crude words but I find they fit into erotic writing and have my own preferances for various body parts in the various sexual acts
But generall I suppose I agree with Joyrider, just depends when and where, I sometimes cringe when I hear the way people, especially woman speak, "Fuck" in every second word, but that is not sex
Forum Virgin
I must agree with some of the earlier posters, I think pussy has no negative connotations in my mind. Refer to my whoo whoo as a cunt on the other hand and you can bet your sweet behind that you aren't getting any from me!
Warming the Bed
a happy pussy is a sideways grin!! well fucked and satisfied.
A cunt is the guy who cuts in front of you in traffic.
A cunt is the guy who muscled in on the girl of your dreams all those years ago. You'll never forgive him.
A cunt is the guy who stole your best business idea ever!! and made a fortune. Hmmm.... maybe I'm the doos?
A cunt is the guy part of a couple who makes some lame excuse for not honouring a date arrangement
A happy pussy is the one that arrived at the date and was properly fucked
A stupid pussy is the student who wakes up next morning at the camp site next morning complaining that she'll never drink brandy again because it makes her pussy ache.
Warming the Bed
Well, Rider, your mother doesn't know me so I'm safe from her punishment
Quote by joyrider
Hi There Everyone
Well from the time i posted this add, i have tried to use the words F....... P........ and i have found it very uncomfortable. Is it because i am trying to hard or i am too use of lets been a gentleman?
Dude - why do you need to change who you are to enjoy the lifestyle? Just be yourself - there is someone out there for everyone..
Somewhere out there is a couple who would be extremely appreciative of your view point on dirty talk.
Don't stress so much...
hi gerrie,
with the last posting it seemed as if i offended many people that is why i removed it . i am not here to make enemies but to try and find some friends. and the fact that some people confuse me with someone else. well did not go down right. so once again i am sorry if i offended some people but when the people read the threads i think you call it they should stick to the content of the thread and not take a personal attack on the person that placed the thread. especially when they confuse a person with another.
thank you
rider
