I have written this story and deleted it again. Not sure why. I like to share this story…

This is 100% a true story.

My wife is late 30’s. She grew up in a conventional afrikaans house where talking about sex is taboo. Sex happens at night in a bed.

Listening to our conservative friends talking we have come along way. The type where they are intimidated by toys, missing out on some intense and rewarding orgasms and play.

So lets start with what my sexy wife looks like… as stated is she is late 30’ really on the edge of 40. She is a mom. She is 65 kg to put it in perspective at almost 1.7m tall. She never managed to get het stomach completely flat after kids and that makes her self conscious. She currently is more blonde than brunette. She has been waxing since university, so every month or so she still gets her hollywood wax, not just for me but for her. She likes to be clean (she also prefers me shaven clean). She also has very small boobs that she sometimes wants bigger to be able to wear some cleavage tops. She is an A cup, the benefit of her itty bitty little titties is that comparing a photo side by side they are just as perky as when she was 23. She however beleives that at her age, with her mommy body no guy finds her sexy. They all look at the young girls snd the super fit girls.

She enjoys sex. We have regular sex. She enjoys riding cow girl and every so often reverse cowgirl spoiling me a view that almost makes me want to cum instantly. She enjoys getting muffed, giving bj’s. She (we) have a selection of 5 vibe’s that is always part of playtime. After many years of trying otherwise she has accepted that orgasms come only with clitoral stimulation (guys I know you think its me, or she had not had you, but a large percentage of women can unfortunately only orgasm from clitoral stimulation). She regularly spoils me with another sheer black little number and an itty bitty g-string to cover her clean honeypot. Shein has unlocked a whole new world and with every order one of these little outfits makes it way to the South African shores.

So why my story, although regular and good our sex has become very routine. The same flow, the same moves, the same times. I have really been her only expect a bj and hand job or two at university and a failed attempt at sex. I was the first to make her toes curl and her body shake from an orgasm.

That said I want to see her spoiled, not  becuase I am not capable - I am! But I want her to experience the pleasure of more people focusing all their attention on her pleasure. I want her to experience sex and play with someone else. I want to see her being satisfied, being enjoyed knowing she is mine. I want to join in on giving her all this pleasure.

Is she in the lifestyle, no. Have I tried introducing it, yes. But remember the conservative upbringing….

I have a fantasy to find a guy, her type of guy that will “by chance” meet her. Flirt with her, tell her she is sexy, she is beautiful. Make her feel those butterflies. Make her mind wonder…. I want a guy to chat her up and seduce her. Make her mind wonder about having someone else, experiencing someone else. Asking her if hubby will share her.

Also have had the fantasy or hope of “accidentally” meeting a lifestyle couple and starting the friendship vanilla. And then over time the wife maybe shares the they swing and the pleasure of what it brings, or one fun night after wine someone dares for a topless swim or something to entice, and the hubby flirts or just somehow unlocks that box that makes her intrigued….

I want her to be my hotwife. I want her to experience the fun and pleasure the lifestyle brings. If you are the guy or know the guy, I hope our paths cross.

My true fantasy…..