I am not a newbie to the lifestyle or the site. One goes through seasons. I would call myself a lifestyler.

Nearing the end of 2023 I though an update to my profile is due.

Happily married but enjoy some additional naughtyness and kink in my life. If you have an issue, just let me know, but don't judge. We all have our things. 

I am 100% Sapiosexual. Connect with the mind and the body will follow. I do not enjoy and texting in acronyms but rather decent conversations. I believe a connection on an intellectual level leads to stronger attraction and more intense passion. Respect for all parties is important to success.

I enjoy passionate play, adding some kink. Without passion, sex is no fun. 

I really enjoy the hotwife, stag/vixen scenario. I enjoy playing with couples in active mfm or just with hubby watching. I also play with singles. I am fairly openminded, I am non judgemental and know that all of us have a story, have our reasons.

I am not a time waister, and if I commit to a meetup, I will be there. 

I am a clean, profession, respect-full and regular Joe.

Ek is Afrikaans

For those wondering why I play without my wife, ask me. My biggest fantasy/wish is that she would join me in the lifestyle.