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yin_yang
Over 90 days ago
Bisexual White/Caucasian Male, 60
Bisexual White/Caucasian Female, 59
0 km · Richards Bay
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Hi All
I was looking through some of the profiles on the site now and at the risk of sounding judgmental I am struggling to understand some of the things I am seeing.
For example:
A single straight guy is looking for a bi-male, bi female or gay female couple. Mmmmm, either he does not understand the concept of bi or he is wanting to try it out, if so, say so. Dude, what have you got to offer a bi-female, your profile is single, what lady bits do you have that she would be interested in? Having said that, what any bits would you perhaps have that a gay female couple would be interested in?
There are heaps of examples like this, you don't even really need to look.
My second issue/query is this:
The site is called Swinging Heaven, by definition swinging is done in couples, or do I have the bull by the balls? I smile when I read "I am new to this lifestyle", what lifestyle dude, you are just here to score a bonk, period, and nine out of ten times its behind the Mrs's back. That is not swinging, that is bonking someone else's wife/hubby with their partners permission.
Don't get me wrong, there is a place in this world for everyone, but at least get it right. Those of us, and I am sure I am not the only one, who have been in the game for years that get a huge kick out of reading some of the profiles and imagining the individuals behind the keyboards. Guys, just be honest, say something like "Available to bonk your wife, or you, if you smaak" and we will all know exactly where we stand.
Hehehe, sorry, this little bitching session has been aching to see the light of day for ages. Hope I haven't pissed too many of our well meaning, virile young cocks off too much. Keep at it guys, you are doing a good job, I'm sure. Those of you that know us will understand that nothing said here is in any way intended to hurt feelings. Come back at me hard if it did.
Yin-Yang
I was looking through some of the profiles on the site now and at the risk of sounding judgmental I am struggling to understand some of the things I am seeing.
For example:
A single straight guy is looking for a bi-male, bi female or gay female couple. Mmmmm, either he does not understand the concept of bi or he is wanting to try it out, if so, say so. Dude, what have you got to offer a bi-female, your profile is single, what lady bits do you have that she would be interested in? Having said that, what any bits would you perhaps have that a gay female couple would be interested in?
There are heaps of examples like this, you don't even really need to look.
My second issue/query is this:
The site is called Swinging Heaven, by definition swinging is done in couples, or do I have the bull by the balls? I smile when I read "I am new to this lifestyle", what lifestyle dude, you are just here to score a bonk, period, and nine out of ten times its behind the Mrs's back. That is not swinging, that is bonking someone else's wife/hubby with their partners permission.
Don't get me wrong, there is a place in this world for everyone, but at least get it right. Those of us, and I am sure I am not the only one, who have been in the game for years that get a huge kick out of reading some of the profiles and imagining the individuals behind the keyboards. Guys, just be honest, say something like "Available to bonk your wife, or you, if you smaak" and we will all know exactly where we stand.
Hehehe, sorry, this little bitching session has been aching to see the light of day for ages. Hope I haven't pissed too many of our well meaning, virile young cocks off too much. Keep at it guys, you are doing a good job, I'm sure. Those of you that know us will understand that nothing said here is in any way intended to hurt feelings. Come back at me hard if it did.
Yin-Yang
