PLEASE READ OUR PROFILE BEFORE YOU CONTACT US

As a couple we are very new to the swinging scene, not shy to meet people, but might be shy when it comes to swing. we did met couples but didnt swing with any one yet up until now, We are not upmarket, just plain normal people who would like to have some discreet, clean NSA fun. None of us are perfect, nor models out of a magazine, don’t have bodies to show around in nude pics, but we are clean, loveable, humoristic and “easy to get along with” people. We would prefer couples but he is allowed to have a single bi lady. He is medium build, handsome and a gentleman. She however is NOT INTO SINGLE MALES, is overweight, kind and always fun to be with. This still is our fantasy, not a dream or a lifestyle, it might become a lifestyle in future if we both like the swinging scene. We are open to a lot of things, anal is not one of them, bi or bi-curious men also a big NO, and ONLY WITHIN OUR COLOUR BOUNDARIES please. We are both Afrikaans, do have a biker lifestyle, like to travel during summer, and oh yes we have a lot of grownup children and small grandchildren, so we do need time to plan our weekends. PLEASE DONT MAIL US IF YOU ARE A SINGLE MALE, AND DONT ASK TO SEE OUR PRIVATE PIC'S IF YOUR PROFILE ISNT COMPLETE WITH PICTURES. We only open our private folder to people we chat to in the pool and have made arrangements to meet. Thank you kindly.

Why we chose to swing

For us lovemaking is more intimate because we are with a partner who encourage our fantasies.

My partner is confident in me, and jealousy is not an issue.

Love and sex are not linked.

There will be NO alone or SEPARATE swinging.

We swing for fun, for us it must provide sexual variety, adventure, and the opportunity to live out fantasies as a couple without secrecy and deceit.

We swing as a couple TOGETHER.

No swinging with single men please, but a single bi lady may join.

We will never ever swing and use that as an excuse to cheat on our partner.

Swinging isn’t all about lovemaking and getting frisky with each others partners.

It is about building up the atmosphere and warmth.

Building camaraderie with someone is essential to us to get down on the knees later.

Although close friendships are formed within the community, we feel that nothing is more important than our own partner.

We also feel that swinging makes infidelity less likely, as we know we can have physical contact with others with our partner’s consent.

if done respectfully, it is to be noted that swinging is to enhance our relationship, not to repair or rebuild it.

Don’t expect to get much out of swinging if you aren’t prepared to put much in.

On dinner and drink dates, the best etiquette is to split the tab, and if we do like the couple, there will be a next time to take time to get to know you a little before anything sexually will happen.

First date, lets meet and see how it goes. Meet any other place except our house or your house.

NO means NO and women rule.

We don't approve cheating.

As long as we have a definition and stay within our boundaries, no cheating would occur.