soft: grower 😢

hard: 18cm long, 15cm girth

Is there a standard way of measuring? it is easy for a 16 to turn into an 18 with some creative measuring.

MrsBunny, what is their typical hidden agenda?

Good question jimmy. But of more practical interest to me - sapiosexuals, how would one charm you with a swinger site profile? Is simply saying you are also a sapiosexual good enough or are there specific pics you look for? e.g. reading a (pretentious 😜) book on a beach or an academic qualification in the background.

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Never suck it up...be upfront and honest about it. They might get upset sometimes but it is their issue, not yours. Most will respect you for being truthful.

I was referring to hookup meetings specifically. If you are sensitive to physical appearance or chemistry then maybe anonymous internet sex is not for you and it is then your responsibility to organize all the pics and coffee dates you require before you arrange a hookup. You can't expect someone to plan, take time out of their day, and commute to a hookup where you don't deliver.

If you are meeting in person for sex i feel you just have to suck it up. Otherwise, ghosting / getting ghosted is par for the course for this type of site.

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Or they read it and simply ignore it.

Both myself and my partner actually get irritated when they comment "Want to eat your pussy", etc. on our photos. Perhaps we expect too much decency or respect on the site.

But don't speak to my partner like she has no decency. I have started replying on these dumbasses comments.

To be fair, what response do you expect when you post a photo of a pussy?