I am a well educated, well travelled, elegant and fun guy that travels often nationally. I have a girlfriend that I play with if needed. Im fun to be with, easy going, down to earth, responsible, well mannered and honest. Im looking at meeting friends and acquintances where I can add value to their lives and value can be added to mine. life is short, im planning to make the most of it. Ive studied in Germany and Lived in Asia for work experience reasons. This has opened my mind to a world of eroticism. I enjoy cuckolding experiences , and can add a new dimension for couples who want to experience this, whether its a once off experience, or long term. Personally I dont believe in the concept of marriage for reasons im happy to discuss . My time spent in Germany, apart from giving me an academic education , gave me an insight domination, kink and bdsm ( dont tell my parents) I give a great massage as well. If you are interested in just a meeting to see the excitement it may cause, or an experience that combines my experiences of Africa, Europe and South East Asia, drop me a message and im happy to share my experiences..or myself.......

cuckolding sounds like a harsh word, and commonly mistaken that its to pleasure the wife. Its a word that conjures up various images and in truth it a process that pleasures the husband. He is the focus of this. It lets out a plateau of emotions, mostly conflicting ( excitement, jealousy, insecurity, enthusiasm, expectations and love) and like nature when you mix hot and cold in various forms, it lets out an explosion. The focal point of cuckolding is when a husband and wifes eyes meet during the experience, they fall in love again knowing that both are doing it for each others enjoyment and that truly is the one emotion that is the result of all the planning, emotional rollercoaster...and explosion. Try it...lifes too short not too. The third person is just the pawn in the process or experience and will eventually result in nothing...until you want to try it again....

BdSM is not an extreme sport, nor is it meant to be. It tests the limit during occasions of extreme lust where the emotions and fantasies play out more in the mind than in reality. In my experience bdsm is done for the sake of doing it thus spoiling it and giving it a bad name. As an individual, you need to be ready to do it....that may take a year or ten...and as well is an emotional rollercoaster that has a thrill that ultimately exudes the emotion of TRUST

By no means do i even begin to think that i know it all, but what i do know that respect is the most critical part of all this , not only respect for your partner, but respect for yourself ...because if you cant respect yourself, you will never be able to respect anyone else.

My girlfriend is older than me , naturally and very open to experiences.

Trust me, we have been there , done that....