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2 hours ago
Straight Mixed Race Male, 47
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Quote by BrattyKitty

I have never met anyone in the lifestyle doing either. 😂 but both could be fun 😏

A nawty fishing weekend away definitely...so much can be done between the rocks lol pity not so many ladies enjoy the sport here

Theres a huge difference in naked and naked sensual pics...lingere makes it more interesting but still needs that sensual or ooze sex appeal even though it's just a pic.

Quote by BrattyKitty

I know of many men that are Sapiosexual, most only realise it when they meet an intelligent woman they are sexually attracted to as well.

That's why I enjoy the chat room...how people portray themselves...its not just about a sexual encounter,to me it's more about the events and chemistry leading up too it.

I love the reward after a good muff,maybe I'm wired different but my dick gets harder while eating Vagina than pounding away at it...that look on her face while she grabs your head as she orgasms in my mouth is the ultimate....

Nothing beats waking up a sleeping princess with oral....watching her orgasm build up as she sleeps...then bamn she is awake and happy to finish the deed

Quote by BadlyDrawnBoy

If somebody whose profile you have never seen blocks you, chances are fair you have been outed.

Chatted to a lady here couple times...then silent...till we crossed paths,I knew I recognized her but I played dumb,was actually first ever meeting her,she came up to me and stated she knows me,I just laughed it off and walked away...never in the mood for people's games

I enjoy reading profiles...tells me alot about you before we even chat...not all single gents here are desparate,people must never forget that...pictures of your bedroom also tells alot lol

Quote by jtrdbn

I'm keen to join your team.

Durban needs it's own team...can cater for locals and tourists alike...lets give them a reason to really call is the Fun city too visit

Quote by Marc_1

Was there last month.... was pretty dead

Beach is deserted...fish that section off the boat,seen more whales than people enjoying the sun

Durban people don't do meet n greets....what a shame,everybody rather keep their dealings under cover

Quote by Naughty_42

What is the name of the coffee?

I tried posting pics of the stuff but ain't declined it...its called Anaconda male enhancer coffee...see some Sasol garages sell them now

I sell some stuff...generic blue pills...the Otto brands work...now I'm dealing in his and her coffee...I got testimonials from a lady who stated her and hubby had the coffee and he couldn't keep up with her hormones...yet he was standing like a Rhino for almost 48 hours...ps going to deliver 5 sachets of coffee to her today just for him

Quote by riley

Have any of you experienced random strangers telling you about their sex lives. I've had on three occasions, two were uber drivers and another a total random person who just walked up to me while I was smoking. All I kept thinking was do I have a face that says tell me about your sex life??

As an Uber driver/owner I carry alot of people around...have even become personal drivers to plenty ladies and I will tell you this,conversation can go anyway,I always read a persons body language and yes some ladies are quite open about their sex lives or the lack of sex in their marriages etc....I know where to draw the line and when to pull those panties to the side lol...all I will say is it's fun driving people around and meeting new people and yip I have been with 3 ladies so far whom I picked up on a trip and ended up getting naughty with....

Quote by The_Courier

There are a single ladies on the site. I've met a few over the years. Statistically speaking the chances of connecting with one are quite low. It's much like the story with single men. Some absolutely kill it and some get no hits after multiple years on the site

So true...im glad I found 2 gems on this site I got to know and play with...honestly single women are here but need a lot of enticing...what I have noticed...if you not vouched,people steer clear from you...post pics and videos...you get noticed very quick

Let's arrange a 420 friendly meet n greet in Durban guys...could easily meet at one of the lounges for some munchies 😋

Quote by RJbull1

Couldn’t agree more…all about the good vibes!

She promised to rock my world and oh she did....

Quote by RJbull1

Hey there,

Would love to meet with ladies or couples into the 420 scene...please get in touch. There's much fun to be had.

Met a 420 friendly lady here...doesn't only have to be about sex...but also being with like minded people.

Quote by Longwood

Lol the Durban side of SH is dead ..... Only single men here

So true...those that do pay are fussy and keep to themselves...unless you a certain skin colour you a top class catch for some

Work canteen while her hubby was serving customers...she was getting exclusive service in the toilet....

If I recall he did relocate down the south coast,invited me for a fishing session then vanished once she arrived.

There are plenty...just don't bother with those that tend to have those "don't cross the lines" part...I learnt to focus on those who laugh and joke with me, instead of forcing an  unwanted conversation.

Quote by Woestynkind
Best one for me was a cpl looked at my profile an blocked me. WTF. I have never looked at their profile so have no idea. 

 Its actually sad because most of those looked at you first, its actually very nice to know not to even bother with those... Doesnt mean i looked at your profile,i want you... We all have preferences too. 

Quote by candace_slut_starr
I have to AGREE, it is kinda racist . " We dont cross the racial barrier".  Since when does race have a barrier? In this age to still be racist , Wow.....not cool.

 I was blocked by 3 couples once when I changed my status to only coloured and black women allowed... Think I hit a nerve and offended some white people... And they made it known in the chat room that I was personally wrong for my choices... Go figure... What's good for the goose should be good for the gander 

Quote by jtrdbn
The sad thing is after this damn lockdown and working from home for 38 months since March 2020 I could be that chubby Santa Claus. 
*cries into ice cream tub*

In related news, I've noticed there's a guy who posts a dick pic on so many couples walls with the text saying "I'm keen". I always wonder if he ever gets a response to it. 

 I'm keen to know myself... Has he ever struck gold 

Nick name suites my build... When teased about my build I always reply, I'm made to fit... No thighs scare me lol

proud to say I have tasted the rainbow nation...my coloured sisters...2 black chicks, couple Indian chicks in my younger days...not forgetting a white red head and a white chick that could pass off as a coloured like one and thought she is the less point is been there done that,but not the real white mature lady that my penis white women may flirt and lead you on but when comes to the crunch they chicken the big black fuck theory is a myth and no our skin colour will not rub off and stain you so your friends would see you were very up close and personal with a guy of different I always say...a white man would fuck a non-white woman anyday...yet 1 in a 100 white woman would actually cross the sad true