So ...my 2 cents. We are the only site in the global family of sh that allows this preference to be listed.
When we first launched a long time ago we had a discussion about this and debated it but I've always viewed this as a preference the same as preferring blondes. But my secret hope even when allowing it was to someday get here and this never be an issue ....it's taking a while but there is very very very slow progress.
Again I feel your pain fresh and hope that this isn't something that ever hinders your enjoyment of the lifestyle and the site.
Pity we never got to meet and ever talk about this
Take care
